also can we talk about the people who pressure you to appear more femininely even though interacting with your body to do so can be very painful in itself? so you just avoid mirrors and everything until you have the ability to do it?

like is this more common than it used to be? like i had some hippie bitch i know say this shit

i really just wanted to be like 'ok so some dude just ran over your face with a truck and youre just gonna learn to accept the extreme nerve damage in your face and never want it reconstructed, right? that truck is testosterone for me'