alright so if all goes well i'm about to land a job that has insurance. first thing i'm doing is getting on T. this workplace culture i know nothing about, so i'm assuming the worst and that it's probably not kind to LGBT people. so, ideally i'd like to pretend to be my AGAB while taking hormones.

eventually i won't be able to hide it, right? should i get out ahead of it and talk to HR in a few months, or should i keep quiet and plan to find another job where i can apply as a man after a couple years? i know y'all can't know if the place is going to be kind to trans people or not, so i guess the question is more, what would you do in my place?

i'd prefer being stealth but i'd do whatever it takes to transition. i need this.