That strategy is responsible for some of my favorite things in my life, and also some of the biggest mistakes- which taught me some of my most important lessons.
Idk, use this strategy with caution, it's really more of a cope for my neurodivergence than real advice but idunno
I really struggle with social stuff so I just try to be as blatantly good faith as I can be in the hopes that if I fuck up it's clear it's from ignorance and brainworms not malice, and that I wanna learn. Otherwise, when I get in my head about stuff instead of just doing my best and being earnest, I just go in circles in my mind being critical until I'm paralyzed and post/ say/ do nothing because now I'm convinced I'd just fuck whatever it is up. I will always fuck up, but I'll also always strive to learn the lessons I can from that to make sure I don't fuck up the same way again
Hey it's cool. Thanks for sharing even though it might have been tough. Some times I think when other people are confident that it's easy but it sounds like what I go through. Once again thanks again for sharing.
I've only met a few people who I truly believe were confident in themselves, everybody else was doing fake it till you make it.
We love you though, and I like reading rants on this website :heart-sickle:
That strategy is responsible for some of my favorite things in my life, and also some of the biggest mistakes- which taught me some of my most important lessons.
Idk, use this strategy with caution, it's really more of a cope for my neurodivergence than real advice but idunno
I really struggle with social stuff so I just try to be as blatantly good faith as I can be in the hopes that if I fuck up it's clear it's from ignorance and brainworms not malice, and that I wanna learn. Otherwise, when I get in my head about stuff instead of just doing my best and being earnest, I just go in circles in my mind being critical until I'm paralyzed and post/ say/ do nothing because now I'm convinced I'd just fuck whatever it is up. I will always fuck up, but I'll also always strive to learn the lessons I can from that to make sure I don't fuck up the same way again
sorry for the rant :sweat:
Hey it's cool. Thanks for sharing even though it might have been tough. Some times I think when other people are confident that it's easy but it sounds like what I go through. Once again thanks again for sharing.
Thanks for reading! I'm glad it helped in some way, and thanks for being supportive <3
I've only met a few people who I truly believe were confident in themselves, everybody else was doing fake it till you make it. We love you though, and I like reading rants on this website :heart-sickle: