• Cummunism [they/them, he/him]
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    1 year ago

    i honestly can't even think of an example because im never going to have them. but i feel like something would come up that they were curious about and id have to squash it, at least temporarily.

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        1 year ago

        i just don't want the responsibility and i have a lot of anxieties already that i don't want to add to. my mom would stay awake all night worrying about my sister(i feel like she didn't do this as much with me, a male) and i get those same worries about all kinds of things that arent children(sometimes its just about my cats when i go on a trip). if i had kids id probably need anti anxiety meds. im an uncle to 6 kids through family, and 2 through a brother from another mother, that's fine for me.

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            1 year ago

            if im the same person, probably not. but it's hard to go back in time and undo having 4 sisters lol. id be a different person in some way. Hypotheticals will always be weird to me.