How are you doing?
Lmao imagine having friends...
It’s ok for me because I have a loving partner, but still. Collectively we have no friends. :sad-boi:
I’m glad to hear your week improved. We probably won’t name drop, but we are her brains landlord so thats cool
I've gone from there being no other lesbians (or anyone my age lol) in my rural area, to a place where there absolutely could be other lgbt people around - but I can't leave the house for months :agony-deep:
as much as it is pretty pog to have a website of communist lesbians, i unfortunatly don't think chapo.chat really counts as like local or real or anything rip
I think I might actually be gay and not bi, and my bf agrees and is going through the exact same realization at the same time. It's interesting.
I thought I was bi for several years. In hindsight it was so obvious but I just missed all the signs, comphet is a real mindfuck. I would always think to myself about how much I wished I was a lesbian so I wouldn't ever have to think about boys again... I selected a man to date and then literally couldn't stand to touch him while sober and I hated that he kept texting me and wanting to see me... And none of this tipped me off, I had to read the compulsory heterosexuality master doc before I was like oh shit.
For me it's not like that, it's that I seem to be incompatible with women, and women seem to be incompatible with me. It's weird and complicated, and the problem doesn't show up till a few months of dating. They have all lied about things for no reason all the time. They constantly acted like they were hiding something, and got upset if it tried to figure out what, asked them what was up, or ignored it. There was no winning. They would make me feel like shit as punishment for stuff I did they didn't like, while never bothering to tell me they didn't like the thing. They would never talk about things directly, and if I pushed them to they would lie about everything. Maybe I've just had bad luck with the women I've dated, but all my close friends who I've talked to about this have said that that's just how women are, but that doesn't seem right to me. They even tell me of examples of stuff like that in their relationships, and I don't understand how they stay with their girlfriends when they act like that. I'm told that is just how women communicate, and I'm supposed to just tolerate it when it feels like being abused.
The only things/people that haven't said that are insanely misogynistic, and suggest to treat women like dogs, and train them to give you what you want. If given those choices, I'm gonna choose to be gay.
I've never had any of these problems dating men. Ever. Whenever I had a relationship problem with a man, we would just talk about it, and come to a conclusion about it by the next day. Simple as that, no mess of lies to untangle, no trying to figure out if you are being manipulated or not, just peace.
Have you tried being a sigma male?
Seriously, some women act like that, but certainly not all. Wtf
Edit: also, my understanding is that straight women can get fucking weird about you being bi, just out of nowhere sometimes
I started talking to a cute person the other day but I got this voice in the back of my head telling me there's a pandemic and nothing could ever happen. Kinda killing the vibe really
oooooof this is a huge mood :heart-sickle: I'm right there with you tbh
At least with the pandemic you could get into a situation with them that's like a LDR but with someone who lives in your area and go from there? That does suck though, comrade. Hope it goes somewhere great, or at least is a bit of fun for awhile :heart-sickle:
That's what I'm hoping for! I just gotta make sure that I don't do anything horny and stupid (again)
Weird overall but not in a bad way. Appreciate the vibe check :stalin-heart:
