CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]

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Cake day: September 6th, 2023

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  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]togamesOh NO...
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    3 months ago

    I don't think they read the tablet itself, though. From what I've read it has to be in a book. In adventure mode, though, you can totally read the slab!



  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    No, I mean that the people being described as psychotic is doing wrong. One example was s certain governor who killed her dog and then bragged about it. Some people were calling her psychotic. My point is she was doing wrong, but psychosis is A) not what's happening and B) not wrong. Sorry for the miscommunication.


  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    I do want to show some grace, though. Like, the language is so common and socially accepted that it can be hard to realize you're stigmatizing people. Though I agree people who double down would be problematic.



  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    Right. I think the difference there is that a psychopath typically has a physical difference in their brain that limits their empathy ability. Now you can also say a sadist is born with the desire and they can't really control it, so I'm not sure where the answer lies there. I typically don't use sadist as an insult (or at all, really) but I can see the arguments.


  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    So as I understand it, psychopathy is a disorder that incorporates low empathy and antisocial behaviors. A psychopath need not be a mass murderer and can, in fact, be indistinguishable from any other person on the street. The connotation of being a harmful, violent person is not necessarily the reality. My stance is "Any person is capable of any thing."


  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    Exactly! Those descriptions are definitely the sense we often go for, but they don't carry the mocking tone we'd sometimes like to include, though it may just be inherent that something with a hurtful connotation must be harmful to someone. Otherwise it wouldn't really be hurtful.



  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    Yeah. They can be hard to cut out, but I am trying. Ableism is just so ingrained in US culture it can be hard to even become aware of things you're saying that can be ableist. But it's definitely worth it.


  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    This sounds like a great idea! I don't know a lot of slurs, but I know the ones that bother me. (Most of them were in the post already) But we could invite others to share ones that bother them and we can hopefully achieve this!


  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]
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    toneurodiverseAbleism on Hexbear?
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    5 months ago

    I'm personally a big fan of understatement, so I like using ridiculously underwhelming insults. Like for this South Dakota governor, calling her meanie of rude when atrocious might be a more appropriate word.




  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]tomemes....
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    5 months ago

    No, no. I am psychotic (diagnosed with a disorder that consists of psychotic symptoms) and I would not do this. Do not mistake "evil" for "mentally ill."


  • CupcakeOfSpice [she/her]togamesWokeHammer 40Gay
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    5 months ago

    It's like they totally missed the satire and just went, "Yeah, we should have an Imperium of Man with a God Emperor who's long dead but we worship anyway!"