https://hexbear.net/post/114618

Post hog

  • Awoo [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Personally think "peepee or gtfo" is hilarious.

    Making some people uncomfortable is good actually. Men being forced to feel a bit of sexual discomfort is a good way to highlight the creepiness of sexist behaviour and I miss unapologetically making men feel uncomfortable from the /r/shitredditsays days.

    • grym [she/her, comrade/them]
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      4 years ago

      No I agree! But there's the gray area of: Is the person you're doing to actually deserving of it (chud/troll/etc) or is it more internal debate/confusion which to me doesn't warrant this, and also is the person you're doing it to a dumb fucking reddit guy or not. If someone after a heated conversation does this to an enby or trans comrade for example, I don't really like that at all.

      It's about target I guess, and I'm wary of people jumping the gun and piling on a bit too early. I'm not comfortable with people having an "excusable" form of being creepy and harassing if it sneakily extends beyond justifiable targets. I don't know if I'm being clear, sorry. I do get your point tho.

      • Awoo [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        Mistakes should be fine too though? To a leftist getting called a chud is going to be more upsetting than the show me your dick part. Anyone that knows what the purpose of "post hog" is will immediately be like "Oh no what am I saying that is making people think I'm a chud?" rather than getting uptight about the thing itself. Why? Because every leftist here knows it's not a legitimate request to post hog.

      • Awoo [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        I said making men uncomfortable is good actually.

        SRS was fantastic and I miss its active period often. Reddit lost its shit about us every single day and it was probably the most enjoyment I ever got out of that site.

        • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
          hexagon
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          4 years ago

          I agree. That's what post hog is supposed to be, right? Using the Chud sexism against them. Considering all the times I was told "Tits or GTFO" it feels good to dish it back.

        • MarxMadness [comrade/them]
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          4 years ago

          Reddit lost its shit about us every single day and it was probably the most enjoyment I ever got out of that site.

          Frankly, this is the real reason we enjoy the "post hog" meme. It's just our version of triggering the libs -- directing spite at people you despise is enjoyable. This is the honest motivation, and stuff about highlighting the creepiness of sexist behavior is the cover we give ourselves. Obviously the target isn't going to get that from "post hog," and anyone reading along probably isn't, either.

          More broadly, we need to reconsider whether being assholes to people online is the best way to get wherever we're trying to go.

          • Awoo [she/her]
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            4 years ago

            Where are we "trying to go" ? If you're referring to site growth I have a very hard time thinking post hog has anything to do with site growth when worse exists elsewhere. Site growth is a content and advertising problem rather than a comments section problem.

            • MarxMadness [comrade/them]
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              4 years ago

              That's a good question. Bullying trolls and chuds is a good way to get them to leave, but that's kind of it. Being an asshole online (in many forms, not just telling people to post hog on here) has some big limitations if the goal is anything else.

              • Awoo [she/her]
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                4 years ago

                I think one of the more important jobs it does is dismantle the image of the left as weak, an image that has been very successfully forced on the left due to the way liberal moralisers have always behaved. We must be careful not to become moralisers, and utilise available strategies as and when they are appropriate tools to do so.

                Our community image online should be one that creates curiosity in people when they hear about us. If the chuds talk about us as absolute psychopaths that make them uncomfortable while the left talks about us as a place that has cool content and cooler people then we would be doing something right. What we need to focus on however is the content, having content here that is consistently the content people want to see elsewhere.

                Why? Because content can't be propagandised about. You can't go into discords and reddit communities and tell people that all we do is have struggle sessions and fight over pronouns or vegans or whatever silly shit is flavour of the week in regards to CONTENT. People will see Hexbear content posted elsewhere and say "I want to see more of this" and thus come to the site.

                What matters is content, content, content. The community behaviour is actually secondary and simply something internal in my opinion.

          • Awoo [she/her]
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            4 years ago

            Yes I did. Making men uncomfortable is extremely powerful for women's liberation. Own medicine from time to time helps a lot, particularly with the people that completely lack empathy, many people need to physically feel it first in order to then empathise with it correctly.