TBH, it's a little disconcerting you'd be punished in such a manner, when it seems like you're talking about personal experiences, inadvertently caused offense, and sincerely apologized. I mean, it's great that you're not kicked out of here entirely, but still, sometimes I feel like segments of the left could be a bit more forgiving. I guess that's just how it is - if you want to have authority in a leftist circle, you kind of need to be a robot. And use different accounts for posting and being a boss I guess?
I doubt you caused any lasting harm to anyone. Give it a few days, and if you decide you like it here, stick around, I doubt this is a burden you'll have to carry with you forever. I don't really know you at all, but you seem like a good person to me.
Nothing feels worse than accidentally upsetting someone you care about, and them holding it against you despite efforts to make it better. But the pain should fade with time. Take care of yourself.
use different accounts for posting and being a boss
you know, this is a good idea for a general policy. You have to let the mods/admins know what your alt is, but it would keep the drama down wrt "wow the mod has a personal opinion that I don't like, fuck them" blowback.
In the IT security world you use different accounts for different things. You don't use an privileged account for regular email.
I personally think she should be remodded. The offending messages don't in any way imply to me that she would be biased in her moderation of trans men or trans people in general, which as far as I can tell is what the demodding was justified with.
TBH, it's a little disconcerting you'd be punished in such a manner, when it seems like you're talking about personal experiences, inadvertently caused offense, and sincerely apologized. I mean, it's great that you're not kicked out of here entirely, but still, sometimes I feel like segments of the left could be a bit more forgiving. I guess that's just how it is - if you want to have authority in a leftist circle, you kind of need to be a robot. And use different accounts for posting and being a boss I guess?
I doubt you caused any lasting harm to anyone. Give it a few days, and if you decide you like it here, stick around, I doubt this is a burden you'll have to carry with you forever. I don't really know you at all, but you seem like a good person to me.
Nothing feels worse than accidentally upsetting someone you care about, and them holding it against you despite efforts to make it better. But the pain should fade with time. Take care of yourself.
you know, this is a good idea for a general policy. You have to let the mods/admins know what your alt is, but it would keep the drama down wrt "wow the mod has a personal opinion that I don't like, fuck them" blowback.
In the IT security world you use different accounts for different things. You don't use an privileged account for regular email.
I personally think she should be remodded. The offending messages don't in any way imply to me that she would be biased in her moderation of trans men or trans people in general, which as far as I can tell is what the demodding was justified with.