my roommates have this good friend who comes over pretty often and literally every other fucking comment out of their mouth is about killing themselves. idk how to tell them that it's fucking annoying and puts me in a bad mood.
Often people do things like this because they're genuinely in distress but have no way to sincerely approach the problem. Humor is a way of putting social feelers out, like "Is this okay? Is what I'm feeling normal? Do you all see that I'm feeling this way? Should something be done?" Usually I like to speak to them one-on-one and express that it makes me feel worried for them and concerned for how they are feeling. Recommend therapy in a way that isn't judgemental or stigmatizing, sharing your personal experiences if you have any. Sometimes they aren't receptive at all but the fact that you tried to have this conversation with them often will plant seeds for the future.
my roommates have this good friend who comes over pretty often and literally every other fucking comment out of their mouth is about killing themselves. idk how to tell them that it's fucking annoying and puts me in a bad mood.
Often people do things like this because they're genuinely in distress but have no way to sincerely approach the problem. Humor is a way of putting social feelers out, like "Is this okay? Is what I'm feeling normal? Do you all see that I'm feeling this way? Should something be done?" Usually I like to speak to them one-on-one and express that it makes me feel worried for them and concerned for how they are feeling. Recommend therapy in a way that isn't judgemental or stigmatizing, sharing your personal experiences if you have any. Sometimes they aren't receptive at all but the fact that you tried to have this conversation with them often will plant seeds for the future.
i am pretty positive they see someone. it's just their attitude. just like twitter brain all the time.
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