Honestly I don't meet the Yanks all that much regularly. I have a couple friends who I see semi frequently, and they're obviously ok. The Americans here at Hexbear are super cool. Since Covid lockdowns are breaking, I've been seeing more of them randomly. And in the conversations with them, I'm seeing a lot of mean-ish comments along the lines of "haha, you did something I'm not used to".

For example, in the past month, I've gotten called out for:

  • asking a guy at a literal commie beer event if he was a "comrade"
  • using the metric system
  • moving away from a boring conversation topic by asking a person what their job is, without a good convo transition
  • saying colonisation changed African countries
  • saying conservatives care more about aesthetics
  • joking that I pray to Lenin every morning (thank you lib for pointing out that this isn't what socialism is)

Honestly sarcasm is good and fine with friends. Like, if the love is clearly there, then ya tease me a bit. Dunno, but it feels like these people treat conversations as a competitive sport. Oh ya, these people are all massive libs as well.

  • ButtBidet [he/him]
    hexagon
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    edit-2
    3 years ago

    We were talking about relationships during covid. It was interesting enough for 20+ minutes, but there was a lull in the convo for five seconds. So I tried to change the subject.

    I think she was an OK enough person. It was just so out of place to call someone out on the rhetorical faux pas.

    Edit: changed minutes to seconds

    • came_apart_at_Kmart [he/him, comrade/them]
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      3 years ago

      my guess would be one of those above options, or her career is stalled in a way that she's uncomfortable talking about and decided to be hostile about it.

      in any event, 100% a them thing, not a you thing.