This is one of the ways that patriarchy harms males. Males are by and large seen as the "sexual agressor" while women are passive in cis relationships, and this extends to young children.
So when a woman abuses a child in this way, he "clearly wanted it", while if it is a man in the exact same position the girl or boy would be almosy universally seen as abused. This goes doubly if the woman is conventionally attractive.
The kind of people that get this kind of dissonance are also likely to be very homophobic. It is a threat to the way that agressor and receiver is set up. This is why LGBT people even existing is a threat to them.
Not saying this is true in this case at all, but these people always say “I wanted it when I was 14”. And it’s true that 14 year olds can be horny and want to have sex with an older woman.
BUT THATS WHAT AGE OF CONSENT MEANS! A child doesn’t have a developed enough mind to make that choice, they just ignore all of the reasoning behind the laws! They’re literally pushing “what if the child consents” and don’t see how that’s pedophilic
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This is one of the ways that patriarchy harms males. Males are by and large seen as the "sexual agressor" while women are passive in cis relationships, and this extends to young children.
So when a woman abuses a child in this way, he "clearly wanted it", while if it is a man in the exact same position the girl or boy would be almosy universally seen as abused. This goes doubly if the woman is conventionally attractive.
The kind of people that get this kind of dissonance are also likely to be very homophobic. It is a threat to the way that agressor and receiver is set up. This is why LGBT people even existing is a threat to them.
Not saying this is true in this case at all, but these people always say “I wanted it when I was 14”. And it’s true that 14 year olds can be horny and want to have sex with an older woman.
BUT THATS WHAT AGE OF CONSENT MEANS! A child doesn’t have a developed enough mind to make that choice, they just ignore all of the reasoning behind the laws! They’re literally pushing “what if the child consents” and don’t see how that’s pedophilic