https://archive.ph/wip/A3N1A

https://www.reddit.com/user/91Uhtred

I sometimes do not understand the hate that people have towards JP.

I like JP’s social views on relationships, habits, parenting, men & women, etc. and he’s one of the most renowned psychologists in the world. Why so much hate? Genuine question.

Thanks

  • happybadger [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    Very telling that she asked zero questions. Even if y’all got deeper and reached a fundamental disagreement, great, simply not meant to be. But she wasn’t curious or interested in understanding, only to judge you finally and wholly and without a “trial.” JBP would call her a tyrant

    https://www.reddit.com/user/BanjoZone

    :kitty-cri-screm: MA'AM YOU'RE DOIN 1984

    It wasnt you, or anything you said, or even what Dr Peterson says. She was looking for an out and a sensational post to her social media. I work in sales and customer service and sometimes clients yell and hang up the phone. I never figured it out until recently. Sometimes im trying to figure out their issue and they still hang up. That person then goes on at dinner bragging that they hung up on a dude that also has emotions, also has a family but to hell with all that. The customer now has a story to tell at dinner time about how he/she "showed me" by hanging up the phone. Lol A good part of all of our lives are mundane, uneventful. Im ok with that and I bet you are too.

    Well, your date isnt. She just made a scene so then she gets on snapface or whatever and posts "just left some loser (insert infantile insult here) at a restaurant over some bs!"

    Dating is challenging but keep putting yourself out there man! But also live your life as if youre prepared to be alone for a good while.

    You dodged a rollercoaster ... be prepared because shell text you within a few weeks to apologize and "give you another chance" lol Be stoic and ignore her. Best of luck out there!

    https://www.reddit.com/user/Moneyley

    Would think 99% or more of women have no idea who he is. Women in general aren't interested in "public intellectuals", longform podcasts or discussions/debates etc. The woke twitter mob ain't a very high % of the population even tho they make a lot of noise. Maybe this is different in the U.S tho.

    https://www.reddit.com/user/smurferdigg

    Ma'ams don't know le public intellectuals

    People hate responsibilities and accountability, nowadays it's all about victim mindset.

    Next time tell her/him nothing is her/his fault and they deserve everything for nothing. You'll be having sex in the bathroom. 👍

    https://www.reddit.com/user/Defenestration_Champ

    They frame him as anti-feminist, but I think that he’s fair to both genders, analyses both of them equally based on science, history and human behavior. That’s of course my personal opinion but I know that might not be acceptable as well these days. And I don’t force it or impose it on anyone of course.

    https://www.reddit.com/user/91Uhtred [OP]

    This is an issue that JP should really address - for his own sake, and ours. I am staggered that women wouldn't be more interested in a guy who is reading about being more responsible and getting his act more together. There are so many guys who take no responsibility for anything and are a complete mess.

    JP has a great message that benefits men and women, people of all races.

    It is quite unfortunate that JP spends so much time and effort on unimportant "gender issues" (maybe we all have had to and maybe it is time to move on).

    I think that compelled speech, or compelled anything, is a big issue (the underlying issue that JP is railing against), but does it cost us anything to be polite and refer to people as they want to be referred - before they get militant and authoritarian and start enacting laws compelling us into doing stuff - which then sets a precedent for more obnoxious laws?

    There are more important things than "gender issues" to discuss, and if you are going to have a fight (or a bad date), why not have it about something really important?

    https://www.reddit.com/user/SauvageThinker

    Oh jesus, this one... (CW: SA)

    They did you a massive favour. To have that kind of reaction is to tell you straight up "I'm arrogantly ignorant and I can't tolerate a potential partner thinking differently from me"

    I think people like that have major issues either relating to a character flaw in their personality that is unaddressed or just a big emotional insecurity that they never worked on.

    I had a similar experience with a woman I was dating that was a cocaine addict and rape survivor. I lent her 12 rules for life, she started reading the first chapter and loved it, was saying "oh my god what he's saying is so true, thank you for giving this to me". She gets to the 2nd or 3rd chapter when peterson talks about the symbolism of male and female in different cultures and how the feminine is linked with chaos (she didn't read the explanation of chaos as being unbound potential, i think she just read it as "women are unreasonable and illogical" ) and started furiously texting me telling me this guy was sexist and that she would not read the book anymore...I mean..what can you do? She misinterpreted a line which triggered a mental trauma and her self defence mode kicked in and she rejected the stimulus that caused it (the book).

    https://www.reddit.com/user/spRitE86-- u wot bruv

      • happybadger [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        Le females use "social" media because their neither logical nor atheist in they're thinkin. I'm too busy readin books to know these things.

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      21 days ago

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      • happybadger [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        https://www.reddit.com/r/TheDickShow/ I'm looking around in the subreddit it was in, a regular haunt for him. It led me to: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheDickShow/comments/w19vjq/rentpig_vito_hates_land_chads/

        Rentpig Vito hates Land Chads

        Oh yeah, me getting a lot of rent from my tenants is a real problem. I hate money.

        https://www.reddit.com/user/Group_account

        He of course most recently posted in r/legalteens

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          • happybadger [he/him]
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            2 years ago

            It's why I'll always pay attention to the grifters and propagandists. They're all selling the same things with the same logical framework underlying it and falling for one makes you susceptible to the others. It all sets up the same justifications, incentive structures, and culture that Pewdiepipelines them into a less esoteric kind of fascism.

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    • soft [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      Very telling that she asked zero questions

      "It's a red flag when women actually know things because it means that they're not vulnerable to being browbeaten by our debatebro tactics."

      Be stoic and ignore her

      > I tell the youth that his provocations are futile because I am a stoic
      > he bursts out laughing and says it's pronounced stow-ic, not stoike

      Women in general aren’t interested in “public intellectuals”, longform podcasts or discussions/debates etc

      This guy has known maybe three women, including his mom, none of whom were particularly interested in engaging with therapy made for incels. And this is supposed to be evidence that we're intellectually stunted.

      People hate responsibilities and accountability, nowadays it’s all about victim mindset

      :thinking-about-it: "Gee I don't know, mister capitalist, things seem pretty bad out there. People are hurting a lot."

      :porky-happy: (counting his money) "Don't worry about it, they're just irresponsible. You're not like them are you?"

      :so-true: "Wow mister capitalist sir, thank you for explaining. I, a white male redditor whose parents sent him to college, had my loyalty bought off with the promise of a middling knowledge job, so why can't everyone else?"

      That’s of course my personal opinion but I know that might not be acceptable as well these days. And I don’t force it or impose it on anyone of course.

      "Why does everyone get mad when I spout my misogynistic opinions? Don't they see that I'm waving this magical totem of 'not forcing anyone' which gives me immunity to be as shitty as I want?"

      There are more important things than “gender issues” to discuss

      "I am flabbergasted that people would care about things that affect them but not me."

      what can you do? She misinterpreted a line which triggered a mental trauma and her self defence mode kicked in

      "Ma'am, if you could just stop trying to explain then I would be glad to misunderstand you and condescendingly shower you with faux empathy."

      • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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        2 years ago

        its, i'm gonna say interesting, how they always mention that Jeepers pushes self-improvement, and yet i never see any of them admitting any flaws or admitting they were wrong. Kind of curious how that process is supposed to work for them. Like from the outside it looks a lot more like his writing attaches onto already existing complacency and rigorously validates it.

    • LeninsBeard [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      be prepared because shell text you within a few weeks to apologize and “give you another chance” lol Be stoic and ignore her

      :data-laughing: :miyazaki-laugh: :tito-laugh: :peltier-laugh:

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    • emizeko [they/them]
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      2 years ago

      The customer now has a story to tell at dinner time about how he/she “showed me” by hanging up the phone.

      can't imagine anyone actually doing this, yet this person thinks they've figured out why people yell at them

    • Marxist_Lentilism [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      Next time tell her/him nothing is her/his fault and they deserve everything for nothing. You’ll be having sex in the bathroom. 👍

      Singular he-or-she is so fake that these nerds can't even commit to it for a single sentence. I hate the way they're trying to change the English language.