• Circra [he/him]
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    2 years ago

    I dunno not telling her seems pretty deceptive. I'd be kinda upset if my wife was invited to an award ceremony but didn't tell me cos she had been pressured into not inviting me. It'd feel like she thought I couldn't handle knowing about it which at best would seem patronising.

    • AssortedBiscuits [they/them]
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      2 years ago

      I wasn't clear in my comment. He obviously should bring his fiance to the award ceremony because if nothing else, he's not going to stay in that company for more than a decade, especially with the recession that's happening. while a marriage is a potential lifetime relationship. Not only was he convinced by some coworker like a dumbass, but he also did it in the least socially competent way possible.

      But I suppose this is to be expected from your average Redditor.

      • Circra [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        Ah right yeah that makes more sense! Yeah sometimes I think stuff like this is made up but I dunno I have met ppl like this.