The title pretty much says it all. I've always struggled to connect with others, but the farther I find myself outside of societal norms, the harder it gets.

  • blackboxwarrior@lemmy.ml
    hexagon
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    6 months ago

    Well said! I agree there are underlying reasons for why we reject certain social norms and not others. But I might push back a little bit - what about the cases where these reasons effectively trump any potential loneliness their actions would cause? i.e. I made the "decision" to transition, despite knowing it would definitely isolate me from a lot of close friends and family.

    • PeepinGoodArgs@reddthat.com
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      6 months ago

      what about the cases where these reasons effectively trump any potential loneliness their actions would cause?

      The mere act of understanding the reasons that make loneliness worth a course of action precludes rejecting societal norms out of hand or following them uncritically. So, I think you're good.