I can't tell if this is a "my brain" problem or a problem for most people to a similar extent
Do you think one of those dentist tools that blows a sharp stream of air into the meatus of a peen could block cum coming out? Asking for a friend.
not enough flow volume in a dentist's tool, you're gonna need a shop compressor and some kind of rubber gasket tip
edit: also this might blow up the peen
Usually if I know and recognize them and they're not usually like that, it's a bit
Otherwise assume it's not a bit, unless that gives you too much psychic damage I guess
Idk don't ask me, I'm autistic and I get it wrong a lot
Double irony bit, pretend like you don't get the irony but sincerely agree with them.
In my personal life, it depends on if it tracks with their previous beliefs or not. Like... I have a lot of very progressive LGBTQ friends that make gay jokes that if, say, a republican senator made I'd probably judge waaaaay more harshly. Totally isolated from context though, I have no idea.
The only way is to have greater context for all of the things a person has posted, but generally I assume everything is a bit because otherwise I would :foucault-madness:
It's generally a tone and context thing. Also every bit I have ever done was to communicate a sincere belief whether by just stating it with a joke or mockingly claiming a belief I disagree with.
Jokes are based on assumptions and carry semantic payloads. It being a joke doesn't mean they don't mean it and that it is above criticism for what it's saying. People generally do understand this but often pretend not to to make a point
take as an example bullying if I made a joke about someone being a worthless idiot I would be actually calling them an idiot and using a joke to do so. Or if someone joked about Jewish people being greedy that would be actual antisemitism that coincidentally takes the form of a joke
Why do you need to know? Life is more exciting with a little mystery in it.
Some people naturally view that mystery as a big receptacle that you fill up with anxiety
Some anxiety is reasonable when you dont have a lot of social capital and want to retain access to social resources.
But also, guilty as charged.
Honestly I just take everything at face value and recognize that at the end of the day I don't particularly care much about other people's opinions.
I'm not a telepath and it's too much work sorting out bullshit