well to be fair, happily identifying as a something doesn't necessarily stop it being a slur. i happily identify as a dyke, but that doesn't make it a okay thing to call other lesbians. femboys not a slur because it doesn't have the history, like, thats just a transphobic/homophobic insult (when its used badly)
Bruh femboy is not a slur. It's fucked up to call trans women that but that alone does not a slur make
Yeah there are plenty of people who happily identify as femboys. Misidentification can be offensive, but it isn’t a slur.
well to be fair, happily identifying as a something doesn't necessarily stop it being a slur. i happily identify as a dyke, but that doesn't make it a okay thing to call other lesbians. femboys not a slur because it doesn't have the history, like, thats just a transphobic/homophobic insult (when its used badly)
Very fair point I was not considering