You may be getting intimate with a succubus, which isn't the worst way to go nowadays.
Were you dehydrated? Not even kidding, the mental effects of dehydration post-ejaculation are weird.
IS THIS FOR REAL? and if so should i buy a BIG water bottle and take it with me whenever i am going out?
I do, but in a backpack. 2 litre water bottle everywhere.
Yes it's weird I guess, but I hate being dehydrated
I carry a 1 liter insulated bottle with me. Ice cold water at all times is hard to beat
i actually have one i got recently because it has been too hot where i live, can't deal with the summer
the fact you mentioned feeling hungover might imply dehydration as well as a hangover is largely caused by dehydration
Always keep a glass of water near the bed for this reason. Gotta hydrate between rounds
also a few on the counter, ontop of the tv, behind the couch, etc.
May be unrelated but my first thought after sex a lot of times is “ yep I’m going to hell for sure” and the crazy thing is I’m not even religious. It’s like they permanently messed with my brain in Sunday school all those years ago
I was running into this the last time I was having casual sex and Ive never even been to church. I had some bad depression and, no matter how much consent was given or how much these girls were also clearly just after casual sex, I would run into weird waves of guilt sometimes.
This is just a natural occurrence when your body realizes you've violated your volcel pledge.
AMAB here, didn't use to cuddle after hookups and also felt weird afterwards The I started cuddling after and it made everything so much better
Pretty sure some of the chemicals your brain releases when you orgasm can make you drowsy. Doesn't happen to everyone, or every time, but it's pretty common. It's a cocktail of a whole bunch of hormones that make you feel relaxed and happy, but are also related to sleep and drowsiness.
I don't usually get sleepy or hungover, but once in a while it hits me like a brick and I spend the next twenty minutes giggling and slurring my speech incoherently. Sex is weird.
Yeah, the main one is prolactin I think.
It's why nofap chuds think masturbation and sex is bad, even though testosterone levels reset back to baseline within a few minutes.
I'm already depressed, so I'm hoping it'll have the opposite effect on me.
It used to happen to me pretty frequently but I've noticed it's stopped as either I've aged or settled into a long-term relationship. One thing I notice in a new relationship is I always sleep pretty poorly until I have a chance to get used to the new person. You might just be a little sleep deprived. :shrug-outta-hecks:
Idk then, maybe keep your electrolytes up and grab some carbs for energy? I'd take things one step at a time and see how you adjust.
guys always think im going to play mario kart or w/e but im actually going to sleep on their couch for 6 hours
Sometimes I fuck so hard I feel like I’ve run a marathon and I just have to lie there and breath it out. That’s been my modern experience in a healthy relationship having good sex where my partner and I communicate what we both want in bed.
Sometimes I fuck real hard and then feel empty after the fact, knowing that I put on more of a circus performance than any real act for myself because I feel that swinging dick (tm) is all I bring to the table and I’ll happily exchange that for a brief moment of human connection because I just feel so, so lonely. That was my previous experience when I had awful self-esteem and was in the deepest throes of my depression.
Could be either of those comrade. Or maybe something else more personal to you and your journey
I love and care about you for who you are and not just your appendage. :meow-hug:
Yes but...not really in the situation you're describing. I'm about to enter year 3 of my current relationship but in my post divorce slut phase I definitely would go through this cycle where I was horny as hell but self aware to not be ready for a relationship and that was definitely a thing. If I were to use videogame logic to describe; hooking up sort of decreased my horny bar buildup dramatically but also added to my depression bar that i'd have to go and work out in other ways.
I mean it is normal to have a cool down and feel a little sleepy after orgasm which is linked to the release of prolactin, and the effect is much higher after having sex with another person. (About 400% more prolactin is released when having penetrative sex with another person, vs masturbation). It's a normal part of having sex to a degree, though if you feel super bad/crap you should get it checked out with a medical professional. But from what you've said that sounds pretty normal, especially if it's the first time you're having sex with a new partner.
You mention drinking alcohol before you had sex as well, that will definitely intensify any "hungover" effect.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16095799/
