OP is literally swooning for alcoholics not people who “just” drink alcohol. Not all alcoholics and all that, but you don’t make the greatest of judgements when you’re abusing it.
I didn't see your edit until after we got into it.
Just make things more clear and less accusatory when talking about it. It's valid to throw your experiences into the conversation, but they aren't everyones.
I apologize I was kind of a dick. I imagine most people here will still disagree with my take about me not wanting to date somebody active in alcoholism. And that's okay, not everyone has to agree with me all the time
I never said they hit there partner and I wasn't talking about OP himself, I was talking about alcoholism in general often leads to domestic violence or bar fights.
I’m not being bad faith. the site has a history of randos coming into unrelated threads and being misogynistic / hostile for no reason.
Your top level comment reads like someone judging women for drinking and then jumps to talking about domestic violence out of nowhere.
Either way I’m not interested in talking with you about this anymore. I’m disengaging on this topic. If there was genuine miscommunication here, then have a good day.
You’re putting words into people’s mouths lmao. Who’s calling for prohibition? Absolute :brainworms:
They seem to think of you drink you automatically become an abuser. Think for two seconds about what that kind of language leads to
OP is literally swooning for alcoholics not people who “just” drink alcohol. Not all alcoholics and all that, but you don’t make the greatest of judgements when you’re abusing it.
So they are having fun in a way you disagree with thus making it OK to say they hit their partners.
Ok 👍
Wasn't talking about OP dude. Was talking about alcoholism in general. Often leads to bar fights or it did in my case.
I used to call steel reserve a fight in every can
I didn't see your edit until after we got into it.
Just make things more clear and less accusatory when talking about it. It's valid to throw your experiences into the conversation, but they aren't everyones.
I apologize I was kind of a dick. I imagine most people here will still disagree with my take about me not wanting to date somebody active in alcoholism. And that's okay, not everyone has to agree with me all the time
It's fine, I came in hot about it because of previous discourse about this and that's not your fault.
My bad as well
Yes. Absolutely. That’s exactly what I meant. Thank you for finally understanding my post
Np
Jesus Christ talk about bad faith. Im leaving the thread man. Best of luck to you.
How am I doing anything wrong lol. I’m not the one putting words into people’s mouths.
I'm not talking about you, I agree with you. Talking about the other guy saying we like to hit people apparently
The fuck? I never said that.
You were the only person accusing others of violence, I just responded to it because it's a super fucked up thing to say
I never said that asshole, he literally said alcoholics/borderline alcoholics
Ok 👍
Exactly? I'm like what the fuck? I never called for prohibition.
You called the OP abusive, it's the same rhetoric that prohibitionists use
Never said he was abusive. What in the fuck are you talking about?
hitting your partner is abusive. hope that helps
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I never said they hit there partner and I wasn't talking about OP himself, I was talking about alcoholism in general often leads to domestic violence or bar fights.
Why are you being so bad faith about my post?
I’m not being bad faith. the site has a history of randos coming into unrelated threads and being misogynistic / hostile for no reason.
Your top level comment reads like someone judging women for drinking and then jumps to talking about domestic violence out of nowhere.
Either way I’m not interested in talking with you about this anymore. I’m disengaging on this topic. If there was genuine miscommunication here, then have a good day.
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Not referring to OP specifically. Come on man. Almost a day old
This you?