There's a queer night club I found about 40 minutes away from me by train, I have nobody to go out with so i'm planning on going by myself next Friday. I'm nervous because I haven't gone to a club in a while and at the same time i'm going to be alone. Ideally I would want to meet some people within the first hour I guess but i'm just worried it's not going to happen and people will think i'm weird for being alone, I also don't know where I would stand or do anything. I have no idea what i'm doing lol

  • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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    1 year ago

    Is it weird? Maybe.

    But do people who think it's weird to go to social venues to meet people and have fun by yourself have opinions you should care about? I say no. If they're such boring dorks that they would judge people for going dancing they're not worth paying mind to.

    That's how I get by. Whenever I start to feel embarrassed I remind myself that I don't value most of the opinions that most Americans have about anything, so I'm certainly not going to value their opinions about how I behave in public. Most people are boring and have boring ideas of normalcy.