My gf takes pills for and endocrine condition, but we still use condoms cuz we are paranoic.

Raw is nice from time to time, tho

  • Equeon [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Of course you can ask "Why", but in practice I've only ever seen that kind of attitude be used to justify "your kinks are terrible, you're brainwashed, you're a broken person, you need therapy, you think you want this but you don't" kind of grandstanding.

    • SteveHasBunker [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      I mean you’re right. It often does just become a “woke” avenue for shaming which I don’t really think is helpful even if the behavior is truly unhealthy.

      • Equeon [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Not trying to bait, and I understand if you don't want to share. But what would you consider "truly unhealthy" behaviors?

        Me, at least off the top of my head, I would definitely count fin-dom in there.