I'll start.

There really is no point to monogamy other than to feed one's ego and aspiring to have your own children over adopting is its own form of eugenics.

  • Perplexiglass [they/them]
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    4 years ago

    Is BDSM that popular? I don't know the numbers, but I think it's still pretty niche. And then to what degree? Like being blindfolded versus someone stomping on your bits. I always think about this question with pedos. Like is there some trauma that triggers the fetish, brain chemistry, sociopathology, capitalism, or some genetic disposition?

    • bewts [he/him,comrade/them]
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      4 years ago

      It seems to be pretty popular, lots of folks on dating sites put in their profile that they're a dom or a sub or whatever.

      The second one. Extreme pain and the mommy / daddy stuff is not for me.

      I'm not married to this take and I'm not fuck scientist or anything so I'm gonna let the last part hang. I definitely don't fault anyone who is into it and I don't think its any kind of "defect" or anything.