UPDATE: The transphobe Ada has been defending says they misgender all trans women/NBs on Blahaj who are strangers - Blåhaj Lemmy
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Further information on the situation with the transphobia: Abigail has repeatedly misgendered me and defended her choice by saying she chooses to refer to all people of unknown gender as male. > Hey, Abigail here. I just want people to know the reason this person got banned is likely because of a deleted comment not included in that thread. OP called me ~~autistic ~~ mentally unwell for not liking politics. THAT kind of behavior is not acceptable on lemmy.blahaj.zone, so I reported the comment and let Ada handle it. Ada tried in good faith to reason with OP but it was clear they just wanted to fight. So yeah, they got banned. Ada’s a fantastic lady who’s been great at keeping the trolls at bay. > Edit: and the bit about me misgendering them is also wrong. Gender didn’t come into play until after I had left the conversation. English default on the internet is male for strangers. Source: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669] WRT the statement that I accused them of autism for not liking politics, further info is available here: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2319669] https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2320815 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2320815] https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2321026 [https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/2321026]
  • HornyOnMain
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    1 year ago

    Yeah Ada does genuinely seem to have good intentions but she's like letting a lot of idk, kind of scummy people fester in the instance, like i made a post about native blahaj users being chasery at me on there and to her credit Ada found it and DMed me about it, but the user who came at me really aggressively and accused me of being chaserphobic (in reply to me telling a cishet male chaser I would be uncomfortable with being in a relationship with anyone who talked about trans people the way they did) only had their comment removed with a request to edit it to remove the bit where they called me chaserphobic, they didn't even get banned from the comm.

    (In regards to the other chaser, I suggested that since they were seemingly a child they'd just get a stern talking to in DMs and a warning and Ada agreed to that)

    • DrCrustacean [any]
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      1 year ago

      It's not like the mods over there didn't know about the chaser who was harassing you. They would pop up whenever Ada posted to yell at her for getting rid of their NSFW com

      • HornyOnMain
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        1 year ago

        I believe they were actually a tranfem / enby pick me and not a chaser (idk their pronouns because they weren't in their bio and I couldn't read past more than one of their posts complaining about Ada defedding an instance that hosted a comm imitating CSAM as a kink but I know they're not he/him)

    • mayo_cider [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      What the fuck is chaserphobic and how is it a bad thing if it's a real thing? My cis-brain can't comprehend this

      • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        It's what a particularly bold chaser invented to make not fucking them Ina hypothetical scenario a form of oppression.

      • HornyOnMain
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        1 year ago

        Just trans "pick me" things ig

      • ProfessorAdonisCnut [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        From the people that brought you "people of means" comes a whole new flavour of too-online-yet-not-online-enough nonsense fresh for this year of our lord two thousand and twenty-three