are you fucking kidding? that's the worst fucking argument you could have possibly come up with. you're arguing that other people being mean to you makes it okay to demean and dehumanize neurodiverse people. that's called being an unrepentant asshole.

the whole fucking point of leftist politics is having empathy for other people. using language that specifically demeans people and makes them a shibboleth for worthlessness makes you a materially bad person just like a landlord or a cop. caring about shit is literally the only thing we can do to improve ourselves and others in this hellscape and you're actively choosing your gamer words over listening to other people and modifying your behavior, that's fucking bullshit and you're an asshole for doing it.