Definitely have an irrational anger for feeling like I'm not being listened to. Or when my arguments get steamrolled over with fallacy. It's how I realized that I'm not great with social skills because I disengage much earlier than I'd ever try to correct someone
Same dude. I'm pretty much checked out at work because I always bring up valid criticism and then get steamrolled, so i just sit and watch my seniors make the dumb mistakes i just pointed out.
It's an easy reason to dislike heirarchy - if you're on a forum, even if you were on 4chan, and you tried to bullshit your way through someone else, you'd get called out and rightly told to shut the fuck up. But because you got a promotion and you make more money, what you say goes. If I don't like it I can leave because there's absolutely no recourse by design.
And for my money, it's worse in casual conversation and friendships. I have the worst time expressing distaste for small issues.
Definitely have an irrational anger for feeling like I'm not being listened to. Or when my arguments get steamrolled over with fallacy. It's how I realized that I'm not great with social skills because I disengage much earlier than I'd ever try to correct someone
Same dude. I'm pretty much checked out at work because I always bring up valid criticism and then get steamrolled, so i just sit and watch my seniors make the dumb mistakes i just pointed out.
It's an easy reason to dislike heirarchy - if you're on a forum, even if you were on 4chan, and you tried to bullshit your way through someone else, you'd get called out and rightly told to shut the fuck up. But because you got a promotion and you make more money, what you say goes. If I don't like it I can leave because there's absolutely no recourse by design.
And for my money, it's worse in casual conversation and friendships. I have the worst time expressing distaste for small issues.