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Breath_Of_The_Snake [they/them, comrade/them]M • 3 months ago

gender accelerationist manifesto (menby, read this!!!)

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gender accelerationist manifesto (menby, read this!!!)

Breath_Of_The_Snake [they/them, comrade/them]M • 3 months ago

Breath_Of_The_Snake [they/them, comrade/them]M • 6 months ago

The comm is open again

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The comm is open again

Breath_Of_The_Snake [they/them, comrade/them]M • 6 months ago

electricaltape [none/use name] • 2 years ago

It really do be tough for Asian guys out there...

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It really do be tough for Asian guys out there...

electricaltape [none/use name] • 2 years ago

popsickle [none/use name] • 2 years ago

Body dysmorphia in boys and men can fuel muscle obsession, doctors say

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Body dysmorphia in boys and men can fuel muscle obsession, doctors say

popsickle [none/use name] • 2 years ago

CommieElon [he/him] • 2 years ago

This is the type of man I want to be.

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This is the type of man I want to be.

CommieElon [he/him] • 2 years ago

LGOrcStreetSamurai [he/him] • 2 years ago

How to Man like a Leftist

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How to Man like a Leftist

LGOrcStreetSamurai [he/him] • 2 years ago

HoChiMaxh [he/him] • 2 years ago

I am a normal, fit and generally happy man in a healthy and loving LTR with a secure job and a robust group of interesting friends AMA

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I am a normal, fit and generally happy man in a healthy and loving LTR with a secure job and a robust group of interesting friends AMA

HoChiMaxh [he/him] • 2 years ago

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

Incel struggle sessions are back on the menu, boys!

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Incel struggle sessions are back on the menu, boys!

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

grey_wolf_whenever [he/him] • 2 years ago

There's a real double standard to guys and sometimes, being real here, it bothers me.

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There's a real double standard to guys and sometimes, being real here, it bothers me.

grey_wolf_whenever [he/him] • 2 years ago

pooh [she/her] • 2 years ago

Masculinity (JohntheDuncan)

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Masculinity (JohntheDuncan)

pooh [she/her] • 2 years ago

CommieElon [he/him] • 2 years ago

I've been thinking of my grandfather and its a tragedy how men of previous generations were expected to live (1930s-early 1960s).

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I've been thinking of my grandfather and its a tragedy how men of previous generations were expected to live (1930s-early 1960s).

CommieElon [he/him] • 2 years ago

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

Why We Blame Women for The Masculinity Crisis (CW: Cartoon Dicks)

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Why We Blame Women for The Masculinity Crisis (CW: Cartoon Dicks)

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

Andrew Tate shows how fascists recruit online: Men fall victim to the insecurity-to-fascism pipeline

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Andrew Tate shows how fascists recruit online: Men fall victim to the insecurity-to-fascism pipeline

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

Avatar: The Last Airbender: Iroh's Speech to Zuko

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Avatar: The Last Airbender: Iroh's Speech to Zuko

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

LGOrcStreetSamurai [he/him] • 2 years ago

Men could geniunely benefit from the "Self-help™️©️®️" if it were applied to geinune self-betterment rather than material accquistion and domination

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Men could geniunely benefit from the "Self-help™️©️®️" if it were applied to geinune self-betterment rather than material accquistion and domination

LGOrcStreetSamurai [he/him] • 2 years ago

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

The Gender Accelerationist Manifesto

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The Gender Accelerationist Manifesto

Ideology [she/her] • 2 years ago

CARCOSA [they/them]A • 2 years ago

This is an appreciation post for comrades who are men or masculine-aligned.

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This is an appreciation post for comrades who are men or masculine-aligned.

CARCOSA [they/them]A • 2 years ago

LGOrcStreetSamurai [he/him] • 3 years ago

Why is the "I hate my wife lol" such a common comedic troupe? Especially from the Conservative anti-abortion types

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Why is the "I hate my wife lol" such a common comedic troupe? Especially from the Conservative anti-abortion types

LGOrcStreetSamurai [he/him] • 3 years ago

Ideology [she/her] • 3 years ago

Karl Marx: The Man - A Post on Marxist Masculinity

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Karl Marx: The Man - A Post on Marxist Masculinity

Ideology [she/her] • 3 years ago

LeninsBeard [he/him] • 3 years ago

On Overcoming the Emotional Damage Caused by Capitalism and the Patriarchy

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On Overcoming the Emotional Damage Caused by Capitalism and the Patriarchy

LeninsBeard [he/him] • 3 years ago

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A space for masculine folks to talk about living under patriarchy.

Detoxing masculinity since 1990!

You don’t get points for feminism, feminism is expected.

Guidelines:

Questions over blame
Humility over pride
Wisdom over dogma
Actions over image

Rules (expansions on the guidelines):

Mistakes should be learning experiences when possible.
- Do not attack comrades displaying vulnerability for what they acknowledge are mistakes.
- If you see good-faith behavior that's toxic, do your best to explain why it's toxic.
- If you don't have the energy to engage, report and move on.
- This includes past mistakes. If you've overcome extreme reactionary behavior, we'd love to know how.
- A widened range of acceptable discussion means a greater need for sensitivity and patience for your comrades.
- Examples:
  - "This is reactionary. Here's why."
  - "I know that {reality}, but I feel like {toxicity}"
  - "I don't understand why this is reactionary, but it feels like it {spoilered details}"
You are not entitled to the emotional labor of others.
- Constantly info-dumping and letting us sort through your psyche is not healthy for any of us.
- If you feel a criticism of you is unfair, do not lash out.
- If you can't engage self-critically, delete your post.
- If you don't know how to phrase why it's unfair, say so.
No singular masculine ideal.
- This includes promoting gender-neutral traits like "courage" or "integrity" as "manly".
- Suggestions for an individual to replace a toxic ideal is fine.
- Don't reinforce the idea the fulfillment requires masculinity.
- This also includes tendency struggle-sessions.
No lifestyle content.
- Post the picture of your new grill in !food (feminine people like grills too smh my head).
- Post the picture of the fish you caught in !sports (feminine people like fish too smdh my damn head).
- At best, stuff like this is off-topic. At worst, it's reinforcing genders norms..
- If you're not trying to be seen as masculine for your lifestyle content, it's irrelevant to this comm. If you are trying to be seen as masculine, let's have a discussion about why these things are seen as masculine.

Resources:

What is toxic masculinity?

*The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by Bell Hooks

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