I am into invading a country and using their oil revenue to pay down our deficit
Aka financial domination
Nope just pure mental fortitude, keeping ones vital essences contained is it's own reward.
Ahhh, so edging then, I gotcha.
I agree that it's way better if you deny yourself at first.
Only if you maintain purity of thought for if you think of another person or object your vital essences seep to the object of your affection.
Its not about arousal or another it's about reclaiming your thoughts and desires and maintaining peak levels of vital essences so that you can be optimal self.
Doing it missionary with my cishet girlfriend of 6 years.
i like it when my genitals are properly referred to as the "means of production"
Wait, y'all are actually having sex? I thought it was just some sick joke.
choking, hitting, bondage, dom/sub (im the sub), deepthroating, clamps, slapping, lactation, just a lot of bdsm stuff. i like the idea of group sex but in practice i havent enjoyed it much. its mostly because i want to be the center of attention and thats not exactly how it works lol
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this isnt necessarily a fetish, but i also do a related thing of ptsd therapy with my bf where we do some things that my rapist did to me and then we have him pause and stop, and then we do something else. idk if this is supported by any scientific literature but it feels good to have control over the 'sensation' of what happened and decouple it from being a 'bad' thing in my head. it really fucked me up but i can have sex with my bf way easier now because of it. also pls spoiler your comment if u reply to this section
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That kind of therapy can be very empowering. Glad to hear it has helped you comrade.
