In case any cis dudes here were wondering what kind of weird shit women have to deal with lol
Chad Chad's youtube channel - their are some real angry redditors in the comments for this video :kombucha-disgust:
Some guy on leftypol who probably came from 8kun or some other shithole on the offtopic board kept posting all this sadistic fucked up porn and it dawned on me once again that like a not insignificant amount of dudes watch that type of shit and enjoy it, and like I remember looking at the shit he posted and thinking: "damn if I was a woman I would be fucking terrified of men, some dudes would want to do this shit to me" but that's probably also because I know and understand what a lot of men are really like
Yeah... There is a not insignificant amount of straight men that don't actually like women. They just have their sense of self-worth tied into feeling entitled to own women (our bodies, our work, our children) rather than their attraction to, or interest in, women.
interest in women because they have been told that women not being interested in them makes them a loser.
Probably the reason they resent women so much is they think that women are denying them the right to self respect and self actualisation.
Can someone explain to me why this was removed? Preferably from someone who isn't friends with OP.
It's for sure a hatred of women. Porn is disgusting and something I grapple a lot with.
There is a ton of alt porn produced independently that is cool and does interesting things. Way too much mainstream porn is misogynistic and fucked up though, that's for sure.
Either way, porn at its best is a mixture of Olympic-tier fucking, professional wrestling, and sexy opera. It's not really supposed to reflect reality, you know?
Olympic-tier fucking, professional wrestling, and sexy opera.
:data-laughing:
Silent porn with vaudeville piano and dialogue on title cards :hahaha:
until the cosmic forces catch up
what the fuck does that- oh :what-the-hell:
also yes, good take.
maybe it's not for everyone but if you also think porn is gross try checking out some erotica. Not really much to feed bad about when it's all fake words and humans have loved it for literal millenia.
The most jarring thing about mostly only ever being around well-adjusted people is occasionally stumbling into a den of this kind of shit and realizing how fucking broken a lot of people are. As a man, why are men like this?
Yeah, it's that intertwined with systemic patriarchy, which capitalism is extremely dependent upon.
The first division of labor is that between man and woman for the propagation of children.
Engels
Just providing a Marxist citation to backup what you were saying.
Right on. It was vague enough I wasn't sure of context at first hah
:rosa-salute:
Effort reply while I'm on my lunch break:
As a man, why are men like this?
Because the first act of violence the patriarchy forces men to preform is against themselves. Above all, being a man is defined in terms of things you aren't, as opposed to things you are.
Example: You aren't weak, you aren't effeminate, you aren't submissive, and so on. But people are those things in different ways and at different times, at least in broad strokes.
So the first thing men have to do in order to be patriarchal, which they've been told is synonymous with successful, is to be violent towards themselves, to destroy bits and pieces of themselves.
That violence spills over into all other aspects of patriarchal violence. If you've internalized hating femininity to validate your own sense of worth as a man, then it becomes very difficult to love women or even tolerate anyone / anything that isn't strictly defined as "masculine".
Through conditioning men to be violent towards themselves, the patriarchy normalizes violence in general.
Right? How does someone even get like this? Has this man never had a single female friend?
Effort reply while I’m on my lunch break. I wrote this in response to @DefinitelyNotAPhone, but replying here so you see it as well since you asked.
How does someone even get like this?
Because the first act of violence the patriarchy forces men to preform is against themselves. Above all, being a man is defined in terms of things you aren't, as opposed to things you are.
Example: You aren't weak, you aren't effeminate, you aren't submissive, and so on. But people are those things in different ways and at different times, at least in broad strokes.
So the first thing men have to do in order to be patriarchal, which they've been told is synonymous with successful, is to be violent towards themselves, to destroy bits and pieces of themselves.
That violence spills over into all other aspects of patriarchal violence. If you've internalized hating femininity to validate your own sense of worth as a man, then it becomes very difficult to love women or even tolerate anyone / anything that isn't strictly defined as "masculine".
Through conditioning men to be violent towards themselves, the patriarchy normalizes violence in general.
favorite quote:
"you are not dating a man, you are dating a redditor" lmfao
:very-intelligent: "Women only destroy, they do not create"
Like how do you even get to where you think that?
Women only destroy, they do not create
bruh the only reason you are alive is because of a woman lol
RIGHT. I love the bit where he claims women don't work in construction because they obsessively demolish everything.
:sicko-fem:
They view women less a literal beings and more as poetic ones. But like, poetic in the same way that Whitechapel lyrics are poetic.
which backfires as an analogy as it makes women sound very cool it's like Jordan Peterson calling women chaoes dragons and neglecting to consider that dragons are cool
Peterson gets a lot of ideas correct, he just draws the wrong conclusion. If he was part of the leftist pipeline, most guys here would be defending him.
Which one of you little shits updooted the dupe?
SHOW YOURSELF COWARD
oh my god he upvoted himself because no one else did lol
Super sheltered existence maybe?
I mean even if we ignore non paid work, creative stuff like art, childcare and care in general (which we shouldn't) it has only ever been the upper classes where women didn't 'work' but I guess that's the dominant class so that tends to be what gets recorded.
Women were working alongside men in factories during the industrial revolution, hell one of the main reasons child labour laws were bought in in England was cos the moralising classes didn't like the idea of girls and boys going down mineshafts together.
I reckon 50% of their worldview comes from lazy, shallow entertainment stuff and the other 50% from their parents and online groups of ppl very like them.
That's a new one. I thought the stereotype was that women were more creative while mean being more realistic or whatever..
Which is also hilarious if you've ever heard a group of dudes come up with a plan.
Dating guys sucks sometimes as well. You'd think that gay/bi/pan men don't have the toxic masculinity brainworms, and while it's certainly less than the general population, some still do for sure. It's such a horrible mindset, poor women that have to deal with this.
My friend stopped taking the train to work because she kept getting harrassed by men. She doesn't go to parties much anymore as well because of the same reason. It's so fucked. So sad.
Men over here really are trash at times.
yeah, there are so many more Gaycels and men who think they deserve whatever is in their smooth little brains, even if they're dealing with other men...
real toxic masculinity hours...
and I am not equating it to what women/femmes face, but the amount of sexual assaults that queer men face is wild.
Yeah, everyone has some degree of internalized patriarchy they need to work through. It's sad seeing people affected by it also perpetuating it (aka everyone).
My friend stopped taking the train to work because she kept getting harrassed by men. She doesn’t go to parties much anymore as well because of the same reason.
There are ways to see if a person is interested without doing sexual harassment, Jesus Christ. A simple hello is a good start.
If you're at a party, you can't be upset if people want to talk to you. Has she always had social anxiety?
I missed getting to see you banned, but go fuck yourself.
There are ways to see if a person is interested without doing sexual harassment, Jesus Christ. A simple hello is a good start.
Might want to tell that to all the men that did that to her...
Lmao your post seems to have brought sexist pumpkin spice hating guy out of the woodwork. Already banned.
@twitter sup my dude, still getting banned for those incel brainworms?
Not entirely sure it's the same guy but he hates pumpkin spice lattes too so close enough lol.
I still don't get how you can hate nutmeg, cloves, and cardamom.
:vivian-shrug:
Oh, that makes sense. It was pretty eye opening when I realized most of the people complaining about "basic" girls is just them listing off things they've decided are feminine.
oh yeah those 40 year old men who brag about being so sophisticated that things targeted at teenage girls don't appeal to them
The things associated with teenage girls also shifts pretty consistently so this type of guy is always in a constant state of freaking out.
yeah but they only do it because they enjoy freaking out and feeling like their better than teenage girls so that suits them fine
Yeah it's like in a ton of food products, even savoury stuff like sussages. Must suck to hate that. It's a popular combination for a reason.
Though I had a milk tart/melktert where someone replaced the traditional cinnamon + optional nutmeg on top with pumpkin spice, and even put a little in the crust. That was not good lol.
I've never had a melktert before, but I just googled it and now I want to figure out how to make a vegan one.
Coconut milk is the most common substitute according to a vegan I know. And vegan butter or margarine for the crust.
http://www.vegansa.com/recipe-vegan-melktert.php
That looks good to me, also no bake filling is another advantage of not using eggs in the custard. Still need to cook the filling though. Can use normal flour as well if you don't have any problems with gluten.
ooooh, that sounds so good and refreshing! thanks for the tip, I'm adding this to my recipes list.
Reminds me of a younger version of a coworker I have that makes it everyone business to know that he's divorced
Men would rather go on misogynistic rants to their coworkers than go to therapy.
I'm like "dude please shut the fuck up I don't care about your divorce let me eat my food in peace in the break room". Mfer has pure lib brain though so when it's not that the tv goes to CNN and endless commentary about Ukraine.
First interaction with him telling me about how he prefers dealing with African immigrant coworkers over African American coworkers cuss they have "poor attitudes and are very brusk" :stress:
"Have I totally fucked up my life by refusing to ever self-crit? No it is all the women I have habitually abused who are wrong."
Rotting my teeth with tobacco to own the pink-haired SJWs.
Who the fuck still does chew? My papa did it in the 90's and it was a total fucking anachronism then!
It's more common in conservative areas for whatever reason. When I was a kid, chuds would throw beer cans full of drip at us from their lifted trucks.
I still see dip here in the rural south, but i literally can not remember the last time I saw chew.
Wait, there's a difference between dip and chew? I thought dip was when you spit out the tobacco sludge from chew. In case you can't tell, I never did either hah
they're basically the same idea, but chew is literally chewed. You spit with both of them.
You literally chew on the chewing tobacco like bubblegum lol. It's absolutely disgusting, I'll never do such.
Yeah, dip is just stuff you place on your gums or inside the lower lip mouth area, still disgusting but chewing tobacco is something else.
oh, okay, so dip is the stuff that eats away at and dissolves your gums then.
I mean they both do, but chew messes up your teeth way worse as well from an educated guess standpoint. I don't know though.
Teeth vs gums, who needs then anyways right?!?!1
I thought it was a brilliant idea to bring some dip pouches on an 11hr flight to make it through it awhile back and it is so goddamn gross I only did it 1 time and decided minor nicotine withdrawals were not as bad as using dip. Trashed that shit
The only guy I know who still chews tobacco is a retired, like over 70 years old. Picked it up through his old job as a gardener long long time ago.
Really weird seeing someone so young do it.
Yeah, Papa is pushing 80 now and gave it up like 20 years ago. The "Red Man" logo is seared into my brain.
I just looked that up and I don’t know what I was expecting, but goddammit
For me it's Skoal, Wolf and Copenhagen.
Just saw the red man logo, Christ the way tobacco was/is marketed to BIPOC is something else...
I was wondering the same thing. For a while I thought it might be like a tumor or something but I really can't tell.
Like I'm not trying to make fun of the dudes face but the shitty lighting and shitty angle paired with him being an absolute goomba make it hard.
Almost positive it's chew. The horror movie lighting + angle he's using would make anyone look goofy. You can dunk away on that, he put effort into cosplaying as a misogynist muppet.
Chewing tobacco and extreme sexism. This guy is clearly a time traveler from the 1950s lol.
Figures he'd be enough of a dipshit to travel forwards in time and then become an incel in an unfinished basement.
:yea:
The more I transition, the worse it gets. I always knew it was bad, but... it's really bad.
Privilege shields men from seeing how extensive sexism and other forms of systemic oppression are in society.
If I wasn't nonbinary I'd probably be considered a radfem or whatever due to how much I dislike men, i fee l like i should go to therqpy
(log back on with a glass of rosé)
(stare at dumpster fire comments):hillary-disgust:
edit: formatting is hard
Oh her twitter is really good too: https://twitter.com/thechadx2
The face of Ed Helms with the voice of Jack McBrayer. And a hint of pol face thrown in.
I'd say "new type of guy just dropped", but this is a very old and very common type of guy.
