talking about sexual violence, seriously don't read if you don't want to spoil your day
I went to an all boys semi boarding high school (on scholarship), and yeah a few of the woman teachers were pedo rapists. One literally took a kid home from the dorms to have sex with her rape them. When the school found out, well they knew all along but kept it under wraps until video evidence emerged, they fired her very conveniently to protect their image. It was all very fucked
So yeah in certain environments and schools this happens a ton. Predators specifically seek this thing out, and are enabled by toxic masculinity like in the tweet.
It also created a fucked up environment, where kids would lust for the woman teachers and try to get with them in fucked up ways. This meant that a ton of innocent woman teachers got sexually harrassed by teenage boys. Shit like social media stalking, creep shots, even masturbation in class. And one male senior teacher got involved in it too, and was also eventually fired for being a creep. I even saw him corner a woman teacher once. Just remembering it makes me wanna puke.
It's no wonder Elon Musk and your average UK politician is so fucked when they go to schools like this. I don't even know how I've turned out semi decent.
Don't send your kids to gender segregated schools pls.
The jokes about Eton, Parktown boys, Affies, KES, PBHS, these elite all boys schools, etc aren't really jokes. They're pretty much real. Just google stuff about water polo coach scandals and you'll be horrified
Elites send their kids to these schools as part of tradition to basically break down and rebuild their children. Of course middle and upper class parents that can afford the tuition, and scholarship kids like me also get duped
Basically what it is. I remember the one I went to had a course on how to socialise which basically boiled down to being fake confident and keeping that guard up at all times. Zero vulnerability in terms of stuff like anxiety, etc allowed to be shown
And yes sometimes it's also literally beaten out of you by older students, hierarchy between the grades is heavily enforced, with the older grades on top.
I wasn't a victim thankfully, but damn it's a horrible culture. And it really messes up the victims, that goes without saying.
I also have really messed up feelings about the school in general, because it gave me a good education that I wouldn't receive anywhere else, for free and all that. But then all this completely messed up stuff happens. So it leaves you with this Stockholm syndrome type state thinking back on it.
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talking about sexual violence, seriously don't read if you don't want to spoil your day
I went to an all boys semi boarding high school (on scholarship), and yeah a few of the woman teachers were pedo rapists. One literally took a kid home from the dorms to
have sex with herrape them. When the school found out, well they knew all along but kept it under wraps until video evidence emerged, they fired her very conveniently to protect their image. It was all very fuckedSo yeah in certain environments and schools this happens a ton. Predators specifically seek this thing out, and are enabled by toxic masculinity like in the tweet.
It also created a fucked up environment, where kids would lust for the woman teachers and try to get with them in fucked up ways. This meant that a ton of innocent woman teachers got sexually harrassed by teenage boys. Shit like social media stalking, creep shots, even masturbation in class. And one male senior teacher got involved in it too, and was also eventually fired for being a creep. I even saw him corner a woman teacher once. Just remembering it makes me wanna puke.
It's no wonder Elon Musk and your average UK politician is so fucked when they go to schools like this. I don't even know how I've turned out semi decent.
Don't send your kids to gender segregated schools pls.
Holy shit :what-the-hell:
The jokes about Eton, Parktown boys, Affies, KES, PBHS, these elite all boys schools, etc aren't really jokes. They're pretty much real. Just google stuff about water polo coach scandals and you'll be horrified
Elites send their kids to these schools as part of tradition to basically break down and rebuild their children. Of course middle and upper class parents that can afford the tuition, and scholarship kids like me also get duped
Sounds like a sociopath making machine for the elites to beat out empathy and functional social interactions jfc
Basically what it is. I remember the one I went to had a course on how to socialise which basically boiled down to being fake confident and keeping that guard up at all times. Zero vulnerability in terms of stuff like anxiety, etc allowed to be shown
And yes sometimes it's also literally beaten out of you by older students, hierarchy between the grades is heavily enforced, with the older grades on top.
Sounds like a legit "how not to appear too much like a spiteful lizard beast" class.
Pretty much yeah.
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or small town American ones
Over half the schools I named are also from the ever cursed South Africa ...
Pls Xi, pls :xi-plz:
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fuck.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.
I wasn't a victim thankfully, but damn it's a horrible culture. And it really messes up the victims, that goes without saying.
I also have really messed up feelings about the school in general, because it gave me a good education that I wouldn't receive anywhere else, for free and all that. But then all this completely messed up stuff happens. So it leaves you with this Stockholm syndrome type state thinking back on it.