• autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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    2 years ago

    The answer here is that third parties should stop trying to judge relationships between consenting adults lmao.

      • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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        2 years ago

        Dont pressure individual relationships. Apply the pressure in a general sense. Just talk publicly about how its creepy and predatory for older people to actively pursue relationships with people significantly younger than them.

        • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          pressure can only be applied in the individual case. There is no broader cultural pressure that can exist without manifesting in individual cases

          • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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            2 years ago

            General pressure will apply pressure to individual cases I guess but? I disagree that pressure can only be applied in the individual cases.

            • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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              2 years ago

              general pressure is a product of pressure in individual cases just as the individual cases are a product of the general pressure.

              You cannot have a cultural taboo that is never enforced. For example wearing shoes indoors this would not be a taboo if no one ever told anyone off about it