The pain of ‘blue balls’ should never be used as a coercive tactic. But almost half of study participants — mostly women and some men — reported pressure to engage sexually.
It only happens for me if I've been very aroused for an extended period. If getting kicked in the nuts is like a 6-7/10 level of pain, blue balls is maybe like a 3 or 4. Like stubbing your toe but it's your balls. For me anyway.
I've never experienced it, but I feel like I'm in the minority.
I too have never experiencec it. I thought it was some random myth.
It only happens for me if I've been very aroused for an extended period. If getting kicked in the nuts is like a 6-7/10 level of pain, blue balls is maybe like a 3 or 4. Like stubbing your toe but it's your balls. For me anyway.