Motivate themselves into action.

Handy work, talking to people, handwriting

They successfully don't know Lemmy.

Uh, cooking......

Be an insensitive asshole

The "normal" stuff, getting someone to stay with them and marrying them, losing their virginity, living by their own, having kids. I will never reach any of that.

Earn and communicate with stranger

Driving. They were pros while I haven't even dipped my toes into it.