As a man trying to get laid with women, I’m constantly having to play games and lean into patriarchal convention because that is really the only way to be half way successful.

The song and dance is mind numbingly stupid but you have to do it if you want to get your pp touched. Nuke cishet dating from orbit, I need a director’s cut, a rerelease. I’m convinced no one actually likes this.

    • Angel [any]
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      5 months ago

      No, but I didn't say it is. I'm just thinking back to the countless horrendous experiences I've had with binary trans people who are enbyphobic and think that somehow there's a major material difference between me and them. They're not inherently "more privileged" than me on the basis of being binary, I'd say, but some have fallen into a trap that has gotten them to think they're superior over a difference between us that means jack shit in the grand scheme of transphobic oppression.

      I'll watch this video whenever I can, and enbyphobic trans people likely need to do so as well. Though I've learned to cope better with the pain that other trans people have inflicted upon me, it's still very traumatic for me to think about.

      Edit: this comment feels a lot different in context after you edited yours, lmao