Apologies for the delay but here they are. As per usual, if your pronouns aren't in the list, please comment them here and I'll see that they get added.

UPDATE: “Undecided” and “None/Use Name” have now been added.

  • footfaults [none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    It's cool that folks who want their pronouns now have the ability to have their pronouns used, and their wishes respected. I'm all for it.

    There's some old farts on here from way back, when people purposely logged onto the internet and took great pains to avoid exposing anything about who they were, off the internet. I kinda groused about it here. It's where that phrase "On the internet, nobody knows you're a dog" comes from. People didn't want people to know who they really were on the internet. The internet was a whole new plane of existence, something that you could use to escape the confines of "meatspace" where for the most part your station had already been determined for you by circumstances of birth and socio-economic status.

    I think it's a shame that Web 2.0 shattered that mindset. People were encouraged to log on as who they were in meatspace, which brought all the bad baggage from the real world straight into the internet. It really ruined it.

    Sure, back in the day you could choose to post with your real name. But it was optional. I feel like something was lost though, and we're more confined these days by the change in culture of the internet where more and more of our identity comes from who we are behind the screen.

    I'm sure there's a ton of caveats. I mean, let's be real, who was on the internet in the 90's. I have no illusions about how homogeneous the people using the internet back then were. But the idea was still something beautiful and had so much potential.

    Anyway, it's cool that there's a "None/Use Name" option, that sort of captures the spirit of what I sort of remember about the Good Old Days, but I figured it was worth maybe sharing a perspective. There are people who aren't choosing pronouns for their handle and it's not malicious. It's just some of us came up in a different time....

    • Speaker [e/em/eir]
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      4 years ago

      If you were serious about opsec you'd just use fake pronouns instead of writing an essay.

      • cumwaffle [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        the whole argument is so ridiculous anyway, as if pronouns are going to be the thing that's gonna get someone doxxed

    • grouchy [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      I'm one of those old farts and really didn't want to jump in on this conversation, but anonymity =/= lack of identity and related baggage. Also something something the internet enabled constructed identities rather than providing blank slates.

    • the_river_cass [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      the notion that we can all abandon our identities online only works if you're coming from the default, majority identity. that's why everyone was "he" online back then. you're romanticizing something oppressive, very alike reactionaries and whatever golden age they think they'd prefer.

    • joshieecs [he/him,any]
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      4 years ago

      They should make "anon" a gender. 😤 Then we can use 4chan speak. What do you think, anon?