Literally just title, I wanna know if being a commie and being into crazy shit is related

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    • quartz242 [she/her]M
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      4 years ago

      Oh hell yeah on the armpit smell, my wife thinks its gross but indulges me

      • warped_fungus [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        same!! Now that my SO works from home he will stop wearing deodorant for days at a time for me :crab-party:

        • Wmill [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Is there any food he eats that might change his armpit smell that you like or does he stay the same regardless?

          • warped_fungus [she/her]
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            4 years ago

            The only time I notice a change in either of us is when we eat a lot of onion, but I dont have a special preference either way

  • Rem [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    I have an inexplicable phobia of hypnosis (literally had to leave in the middle of Get Out because of anxiety), but also apparently a massive fetsh for it.

    Like the idea of having my willpower completely erased, but still being able to perceive what's going as a helpless prisoner in my own body is deathly terrifying, except in the context of sex in which case it makes me horny as hell.

    Please no one try and psychoanalyze this, I'm good.

    I also really love the idea of riding / generally fucking someone who's hypnotized, I'm pretty switchy about this particular fantasy I guess.

      • Wmill [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        I heard of a theory that we use sex as a means to make things less scary i.e that thing you are scared of is no longer intimidating but is catering to what you like. Like sexy police uniforms or I remember this one Mexican girl that I thought was hot wearing a sexy ICE uniform. Ngl that confused me for a while since I'm Mexican american.

          • Wmill [they/them]
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            4 years ago

            I mean am not saying if you have a police uniform fetish to go with a police officer but that this could take away some of their power they have over us. This might be a form of sexual objectification but one that might be acceptable since it is being done not to someone based off of who they are and more a choice that they made in becoming class traitors.

      • Orannis62 [ze/hir]
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        4 years ago

        I think so. Fear and arousal are actually pretty easy emotions for your brain to fuck around with and cross some wires on

      • Rem [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        Common? Not sure. I just know me. But not a bad thing either way I think.

      • Rem [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        You know, the trans ladies on this sub are all wonderful and valid, but uh, you're not talking to one lmao. Psycho.

  • YoungSophocles [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Had a girl who wanted me to spit on her... was never even considerate of that before.. but damn. The power. The opening her mouth to ask for it. The filthiness. Pretty hot ngl

  • CUM_ORGANIZER_BOT [it/its]
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    4 years ago

    THE VOLCEL POLICE HAVE BEEN ABOLISHED, COMRADE

    CUMMING IS A PROLETARIAN ACTIVITY

  • AllCatsAreBeautiful [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I'm presumably a straight guy. I've never felt attraction to a man and when I tried watching gay porn it turned me off. However I'm very into the idea of being pegged and being dommed by a woman who makes me blow/fuck a guy. I speculate that it comes either from past abuse and/or major self esteem issues but idk. No eating ass though that shit's nasty.

    Gotta love chapo for letting me share my darkest secrets

    • Wmill [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      Maybe acting like a parental figure where it's like blank knows best. Do as I say idk. You are doming from a place of love so using rewards to shape behavior.

      • Grownbravy [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        Yeah, I still have to dip in some more into all that. I seem to attract brats when I was dating and the world was less on fire.

        • Wmill [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Good luck, admittedly I never dated myself but have done a lot of thinking. I think brattyness is a form of selfishness since this behavior probably is intended to get a reaction out of you. Idk maybe not rewarding them with a response might help.

          • Grownbravy [they/them]
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            4 years ago

            It's always a little poking and prodding, usually to have me "set them straight" I've taken a BDSM test before, and among the top things I'm rated as "brat tamer" was pretty high up there. I like to say I'm very physical with a partner and do like restraining, usually with my hands, a favorite of mine is to restrain both wrists together above or behind with one hand.

            • Wmill [they/them]
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              4 years ago

              So typed in bdsm test and got this https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode . Or is it something else. I kind of want to try these test but I know peeps always treat the results like horoscopes or economics you know made up shit that is not real. Do you think you're results were accurate?

    • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      Being a Dom doesn't need or have to involve being mean at all. That's just for people that are into hat stuff. You can be as sensual, or kind or whatever and, in my book that makes for a better dom. I kind of distrust anyone that gets off of actually being mean or degrading or causing pain, and I kind of get the impression there I way too many of these ...

      • Grownbravy [they/them]
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        4 years ago

        not at all, but it feels like the basic understanding of one comes from really bad representations, or exclusively the humiliation type. I dont like humiliating people unless they deserve it, and not in the hot way.

      • HereInRobotHell [they/them,comrade/them]
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        4 years ago

        I kind of distrust anyone that gets off of actually being mean or degrading or causing pain

        I mean there are a lot of assholes but this can be done in a mutually hot and satisfying way

        • penguin_von_doom [she/her]
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          4 years ago

          Its a personal thing. If it works for someone else, fine. I personally cant get over it ...

  • faux [none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    Would say not correlated - I'm vanilla, and also the only real leftist here.

    • Wmill [they/them]
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      4 years ago

      So artificial vanilla or real vanilla? Also in liquid form or in bean form and how do you use it?