Feels bad, man.

Hey everyone, just did what it says in the title. Posting into the void that is chapo bc internet validation points would do a little to help fill the void left in my heart.

Was really happy with them and had plans. Wanted to spend the rest of my life with them tbh. Really kinda hurts now that I think about it.

Ultimately, what we wanted out of the relationship couldn't be reconciled. Glad that we were able to end things amicably. I really respect that we were always able to talk about things that bothered us in a rational manner. Real diamond in the rough maturity that's gonna be really hard to find in another person.

Anyway, I'm up in the wee hours of the morning and I wanna talk to everyone else. Get my mind off things, y'know. So, how y'all doing? Also, could use a lil suck pwease? Post hog if y'all wanna link up ;)

  • PonsonBaz [they/them,he/him]
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    4 years ago

    Had a very similar experience recently, it's tough moving through it. I think I was on the opposite side of the coin though, where my partner had longer term plans for us and I didn't. I still feel bad because idk if I gave them the love that they deserved and needed. Just know that it was better to go through it now rather than later, things are harder to reconcile down the line. And don't worry, you'll find someone just as great or better in the future. It's easy to see things as "diamond in the ruff" so close to the incident, but there are many great people out there to love <3

    • Healthcare_pls [he/him]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      Hmm. Thanks for the perspective. Perhaps you're right. It hurts to lose something great but all I can do is hope for something even better. And I think that you did fine. All anyone can ask of you is to give the love you can