If you thought you were a true ally, maybe it's time for some introspection.

    • boyfriend_ascendent [he/him,undecided]
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      4 years ago

      ❤️

      In most aspects of my life, belief follows action, not the other way around. Just take the plunge into trying to be the person you want to be instead of changing your mind and hoping your behavior will follow. Relationships, love, and sex are not that terrain, to me. I'd feel like I'm playing with someone's heart and not even knowing how I'm going to react.

    • the_river_cass [she/her]
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      4 years ago

      yea, open communication is the key. I'd feel so comfy approaching a relationship with someone who talked about these kinds of fears because I know they see me as a whole ass person, have boundaries, and are prepared to communicate.