What’s the appeal of that podcast again?

  • _else [she/her,they/them]
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    4 years ago

    thanks; I've always wanted to get into the visual arts. im glad the effort is paying off.

    • RedArmor [he/him]
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      4 years ago

      Why are you trying to spark the fire to this again? This was 12 hours ago.

      • _else [she/her,they/them]
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        4 years ago

        just saw it, and im not 'trying to spark' anything, you complimented my artistic ability, and it's something I have a lot of insecurity about and like... i really treasure those kinds of praise. I was thanking you, asshole.

        this is why I don't accept fucking compliments, fucking shit.

        • RedArmor [he/him]
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          4 years ago

          It was a sarcastic remark to you and others about framing me as a sexist. The context of the comment is everything.

          Now I’m an asshole for saying I don’t want another struggle started? How am I not supposed to read yours as sarcastic and trying to instigate something with a 12 hour later reply after everyone has moved on?

          No one told you to not accept compliments. Fucking hell. Literally victimizing yourself at this point.

          • _else [she/her,they/them]
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            4 years ago

            so now you're shitting on my ability to paint. wonderful. thanks. that was fucking necessary. I literally just told you im fucking insecure about this shit. what the fuck is wrong with you?

            YOU GAVE ME A COMPLIMENT AND THEN SHIT ON ME WHEN I ACCEPTED IT EARNESTLY what the fuck else am I supposed to do to protect myself from that shit emotionally? you didn't just tell me, you SHOWED me, which, from my old lit classes, I seem to remember is MUCH FUCKING STRONGER.

            go fuck yourself and your gaslighting bullshit.

            • RedArmor [he/him]
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              4 years ago

              What the fuck?

              Are you okay, comrade? Like sincerely, is everything alright?

              • _else [she/her,they/them]
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                4 years ago

                fuck you don't call me comrade after that shit. fucking scroll the fuck up and take responsibility for your shitty behavior. I'm upset BECAUSE OF YOU AND YOUR ACTIONS AND YOUR WORDS and you tricking me into accepting a compliment about a thing im super insecure about, then telling me im an idiot for doing so. go fuck yourself you delusional proto-reactionary piece of shit.

                • RedArmor [he/him]
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                  4 years ago

                  I didn’t trick you into accepting anything.

                  Your replied to a comment from 12 hours ago that was a sarcastic remark regarding the framing of me being a sexist due to disagreements with other comrades about the nature of their criticisms. (Not the criticism itself, but about the time/place for defending it which I was told was tone policing.)

                  I never mentioned anything about your paintings. I never said you were a bad artist or that you should quit. I literally was saying you are taking a comment from half a day ago out of context. Then when I say what I meant by that comment during the time, you tell me I’m an asshole and to fuck myself because I’m actually insulting you, and not complimenting you?

                  • _else [she/her,they/them]
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                    4 years ago

                    you literally did! you said I had painted a great picture of you as a sexist asshole!

                    and then you took it back when I accepted!

                    you fucking lying piece of shit gaslighting monster! there's a fucking log, archive.org has records, and I took screenshots because I was so proud of someone saying I was a good painter. I just assumed I'd broken out the paints while I was in the drugs. ITS PROVABLE don't even try to edit this shit.