They seem to be of the opinion that since I don’t have little clones of myself running around that my free time is inherently less valuable.
No Sam, I’m not working two doubles so you can make it to little Timmys fucking music recitals. Bringing that little shit into the world was your fucking choice you dumbass!
Sorry, needed to vent.
this depends on social context but if some is just asking you to pick up a shift for them then adding the reason that is normal and it would be weird to have this reaction. Now if they ask then kinda add more stuff in a judgmental/condescending way then they are being pricks