i'm not saying they don't, i just remember back in my heyday (message boards, myspace, soulseek, irc) my indie music passion was stoked so hard, steeped in all sorts of deep discussions and camaraderie

i never gave up that passion for music, i'm always checking out new bands and going to a lot of shows. i used to meet so many fellow fanatics and talk and get to know people at shows, now everyone scrambles for the exit before the encore is over. i find new bands with sizable followings, but there's NOWHERE to discuss the music. you have to go to super niche subreddits and hope there's enough genre crossover to hint at a discussion. no one buys albums anymore, it's all singles and streaming

are we just atomized and consumed by the spur of the moment, or am i just suffering from a case of the olds?

edit: btw i'm down for more recommendations, i listen to a little bit of everything

  • thethirdgracchi [he/him, they/them]
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    4 years ago

    Some people are just sort of awkward on stage. I've seen Mitski three times and each time she kills her set while not really saying much at all. Strikes me as a quiet person in front of a large audience, and that's not such a bad thing.

    • duck [he/him,they/them]
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      4 years ago

      Yeah for sure, in this case I think it would be better if she didn't say anything because she seemed cold and indifferent, but my reaction is also a consequence of expecting artists to put on an act and be super grateful

      • thethirdgracchi [he/him, they/them]
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        4 years ago

        Yeah I think our brains are broken to expect everybody to act like the cashiers at Chick-fil-A where they thank us for existing with a smile because the Customer is Always Right.

        • duck [he/him,they/them]
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          4 years ago

          That's kinda it, but then in this case it's an artist's fans, I can't imagine not at least being polite towards those who appreciate your creative work.