Edit: Don’t just downvote and run away, make your liberalism known. If you have an issue with either of these, please let them be known in the comments. C'mon, let's duke it out. :)

For the libs shouting "but muh anonymity", you should have zero issue using the "any pronoun" tag as you will be addressed with any pronouns regardless of whether or not you have it set. The point of having them sitewide is for everyone to use them to normalize explicitly stating one's pronouns as a means of not forcing trans people to request to be addressed with basic respect. The amount of pushback on a meaningful step toward trans inclusivity in this community is pretty fucking disheartening, not gonna lie.

Folks seem to be using the NSFW tag for the spoiler effect on memes, and while it's a funny use of it, it's causing the intended use of the NSFW tag to lose its value. This isn't r/WatchPeopleDie. Personally, I was exposed to that sort of content at a younger age and am desensitized to it now, but not everyone is like me in that regard and I'm probably more fucked up than I like to think for having been as exposed to it as I was. We currently don't have another way of tagging content, so please be considerate and put "[NSFL]" or content warnings in the title so people know they'll be looking at some heavy shit. Not a lot to ask. Please do not start ironically putting "[NSFL]" or other content warnings in the post title. You're more creative than that, I promise.

      • chantox
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        1 year ago

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        • garbology [he/him]
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          4 years ago

          a separate spoiler tag

          This is a great idea that allows people to do their joke posts without diluting the usefulness of NSFW/NSFL/CW tags. Love it!

          • ElectricMonk [she/her,undecided]
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            4 years ago

            They have content warnings that can have any text, these are used for everything from NSFW, NSFL, spoilers, joke punchlines and hiding long posts not everyone is interested in. IIRC they were added by popular demand of the large mastodon lgbt community among others and its really became a part of the culture, some instances/circles CW a broader range of topics than others (like selfies or politics) and that’s ok. White a few users say what they CW or request what posts should be CWed when tagging them.

            Ultimately it’s quite a leap from what other sites sites and has an impact on the posting culture, wether it’s right for Lemmy or ChapoChat I don’t know.

            Personally I think it’s a good idea to be aware of how the rest of the fediverse works to be able to decide where compatibility is desired. (unless that’s being left to the upstream devs) Because a lot of features people are asking for, like better NSFW, polls, and other features that might be wanted in the future like image descriptions etc already exist on the fediverse in some form.

      • qublic69 [none/use name]
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        4 years ago

        Only potential problem I see is that NSFW is being used so much as a joke.
        When you avoid NSFW that means missing out on funny shitposts.

        So if NSFL is added there should probably be a rule/notice that it can only be used seriously.

        • the_river_cass [she/her]
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          4 years ago

          I'd honestly rather see "CW: <description>" as a tag on posts, make sure moderators can add it even if a poster doesn't think to do it, and enforce that it's meant to be kept serious. what's NSFL for you may not be for me and vice versa so a description really helps.

          • qublic69 [none/use name]
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            4 years ago

            I had described most of these ideas in another thread some time ago...
            TL;DR: adding NSFL tags has almost no cost and significant benefit, simple "CW:<...>" has higher cost with insufficient benefit, better tagging might be achievable.

            long comment...

            I think "CW: <...>" would be good, but implementing that correctly requires much more effort.
            For example it would be nice to have closed-captions/alt-text on all image posts, but OPs are often lazy or do not know what to include.

            Best solution would be allowing other users, so not OP themselves, to add alt-text/content-warnings/tags onto posts.
            But implementing something like that correctly would take time.

            In my opinion crowd sourced tagging really is the way to go, and anything implemented now could risk creating inconsistencies with future systems.
            For example, I would like all non-vegan posts to be tagged "vegan/CW:carnism" but that is highly opinionated and not something OPs would tag themselves or even a category of tags that all users want to see.

            Putting all the effort of tagging onto mods is not sufficient, that is too much work, they do not have reaction time, and mod opinions/discernment/interests do not cover the range of all applicable tags.
            A better system might be to grant regular users global tagging privileges within specific categories of their interest. Then make tag categories optional to display, and click ··· to show hidden tags.

            Another tag category could be "trauma", including things like "trauma/CW:religion" but again that is not something OPs or even most mods would care about tagging everything.
            The problem with simple "CW: <...>" is precisely that which things are CW worthy for you, might not be for others, and multiple "CW" tags on everything is spammy/clutter so it needs to be selectively optional first.

            Just like setting pronouns, adding "CW: <...>" will have pushback if it is not optional for both posters and users.
            Especially considering that "CW: <...>" is highly opinionated. For example withing trauma communities things like "CW:incest" are further obfuscated into "CW:in***t" and even that is arguably better filtered rather than visibly tagged.
            But then having open ended <description> makes filtering nearly impossible. Meanwhile "alt-text/<description>" could be useful. So really there has to be some kind of curation/expertise within each tag category.

            Simple NSFL tag seems to me like a good stopgap solution, and that level of effort and discernment is reasonable to expect from all OPs.
            The idea of what is NSFL is much like NSFW something that we could agree upon as a culture. NSFL just means traumatic for the majority of people.

            Adding simple "CW: <...>" has the risk of requiring effort without being reliable enough for people that depend on CW to actually use this website.
            The same applies with closed-captions/alt-text; if those tags are so sparsely added then people using them just leave anyway.
            Requiring people to do things for marginalized groups, even if that work is done by mods, unfortunately can cause some resentment.

            Almost nobody that really depends on detailed content-warnings is using ChapoChat, random terfs/trolls/nazis show up all the time, this is hardly a safe space.
            Something like "CW: <...>" could easily provide a false sense of security if not sufficiently crowd sourced to be responsive and comprehensive.

            Or there would have to be "CW: unchecked" added by default, but even that is less useful that "vegan/unchecked" and "truama/unchecked" and so on...
            Because it takes some amount of experience/expertise to know what things need tagging within these various domains.

            It has to be worth the cost-benefit. NSFL tags have effectively no cost, usage can be enforced by mods.
            "CW: <...>" has a cost but in my opinion benefit is just not there until it can be organized into categories and crowd sourced.

            The most important thing to me is that ChapoChat needs to maintain some degree of a carefree attitude.
            I do not mean anything goes, but rather that it should be accessible to lazy people and those with lingering liberalism.
            If people are worried about making mistakes while posting because they did not alt-text/content-warnings/tags correctly, that could be the end of ChapoChat.
            There is no worry associated with using NSFL incorrectly; if anything having an NSFL tag makes posting NSFL content less worrisome.

            Utopian as fuck?

            • the_river_cass [she/her]
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              4 years ago

              Best solution would be allowing other users, so not OP themselves, to add alt-text/content-warnings/tags onto posts.

              yeah, agreed. I said somewhere else mods should be able to add them and I think initially that's best while people get used to thinking through the consequences of what they're doing (or we wouldn't be having this conversation -- people put joke titles with NSFW on images of gore)

              Simple NSFL tag seems to me like a good stopgap solution, and that level of effort and discernment is reasonable to expect from all OPs.

              sure, there's no reason we can't iterate, I'm just saying that the ideal situation is that we can tag stuff so people know what to avoid.

              Adding simple “CW: <…>” has the risk of requiring effort without being reliable enough for people that depend on CW to actually use this website.

              I think people will learn relatively fast, especially with community pressure.

              Requiring people to do things for marginalized groups, even if that work is done by mods, unfortunately can cause some resentment.

              well, yeah. look at this thread, lol. I don't think that's a reason not to do something, it only means that we have a lot of work to do.

              Almost nobody that really depends on detailed content-warnings is using ChapoChat, random terfs/trolls/nazis show up all the time, this is hardly a safe space.

              I think the point is that we'd like it to be.

              Something like “CW: <…>” could easily provide a false sense of security if not sufficiently crowd sourced to be responsive and comprehensive.

              as you said, no one who depends on those is here right now anyway. the best time to start a change was yesterday, the second best time is today.

              Or there would have to be “CW: unchecked” added by default, but even that is less useful that “vegan/unchecked” and “truama/unchecked” and so on…

              no these aren't helpful.

              It has to be worth the cost-benefit. NSFL tags have effectively no cost, usage can be enforced by mods.

              as I said, it's not all or nothing. we can add NSFL and CW and let the usage of the latter grow over time / with encouragement.

              The most important thing to me is that ChapoChat needs to maintain some degree of a carefree attitude. I do not mean anything goes, but rather that it should be accessible to lazy people and those with lingering liberalism.

              I don't think that's going anywhere.

              If people are worried about making mistakes while posting because they did not alt-text/content-warnings/tags correctly, that could be the end of ChapoChat.

              I very much doubt that anyone will ever be that worried about them. as you said, there's a carefree attitude here. and I mean, look at this thread -- people can't work up the care to press a couple of buttons that they ultimately don't care about.

              Utopian as fuck?

              no, just very pessimistic on the possibility for change. and I mean, this thread is good reason to be, but I think the effect of this will be that most people choose to tag themselves. a similar kind of back and forth will happen with CW (I doubt as severe as there isn't the same perception of moral judgement at play) and ultimately, I'd rather this be a safe space than an unsafe one. people get hurt here and that gets old real fast.