Edit: Don’t just downvote and run away, make your liberalism known. If you have an issue with either of these, please let them be known in the comments. C'mon, let's duke it out. :)

For the libs shouting "but muh anonymity", you should have zero issue using the "any pronoun" tag as you will be addressed with any pronouns regardless of whether or not you have it set. The point of having them sitewide is for everyone to use them to normalize explicitly stating one's pronouns as a means of not forcing trans people to request to be addressed with basic respect. The amount of pushback on a meaningful step toward trans inclusivity in this community is pretty fucking disheartening, not gonna lie.

Folks seem to be using the NSFW tag for the spoiler effect on memes, and while it's a funny use of it, it's causing the intended use of the NSFW tag to lose its value. This isn't r/WatchPeopleDie. Personally, I was exposed to that sort of content at a younger age and am desensitized to it now, but not everyone is like me in that regard and I'm probably more fucked up than I like to think for having been as exposed to it as I was. We currently don't have another way of tagging content, so please be considerate and put "[NSFL]" or content warnings in the title so people know they'll be looking at some heavy shit. Not a lot to ask. Please do not start ironically putting "[NSFL]" or other content warnings in the post title. You're more creative than that, I promise.

  • the_river_cass [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Best solution would be allowing other users, so not OP themselves, to add alt-text/content-warnings/tags onto posts.

    yeah, agreed. I said somewhere else mods should be able to add them and I think initially that's best while people get used to thinking through the consequences of what they're doing (or we wouldn't be having this conversation -- people put joke titles with NSFW on images of gore)

    Simple NSFL tag seems to me like a good stopgap solution, and that level of effort and discernment is reasonable to expect from all OPs.

    sure, there's no reason we can't iterate, I'm just saying that the ideal situation is that we can tag stuff so people know what to avoid.

    Adding simple “CW: <…>” has the risk of requiring effort without being reliable enough for people that depend on CW to actually use this website.

    I think people will learn relatively fast, especially with community pressure.

    Requiring people to do things for marginalized groups, even if that work is done by mods, unfortunately can cause some resentment.

    well, yeah. look at this thread, lol. I don't think that's a reason not to do something, it only means that we have a lot of work to do.

    Almost nobody that really depends on detailed content-warnings is using ChapoChat, random terfs/trolls/nazis show up all the time, this is hardly a safe space.

    I think the point is that we'd like it to be.

    Something like “CW: <…>” could easily provide a false sense of security if not sufficiently crowd sourced to be responsive and comprehensive.

    as you said, no one who depends on those is here right now anyway. the best time to start a change was yesterday, the second best time is today.

    Or there would have to be “CW: unchecked” added by default, but even that is less useful that “vegan/unchecked” and “truama/unchecked” and so on…

    no these aren't helpful.

    It has to be worth the cost-benefit. NSFL tags have effectively no cost, usage can be enforced by mods.

    as I said, it's not all or nothing. we can add NSFL and CW and let the usage of the latter grow over time / with encouragement.

    The most important thing to me is that ChapoChat needs to maintain some degree of a carefree attitude. I do not mean anything goes, but rather that it should be accessible to lazy people and those with lingering liberalism.

    I don't think that's going anywhere.

    If people are worried about making mistakes while posting because they did not alt-text/content-warnings/tags correctly, that could be the end of ChapoChat.

    I very much doubt that anyone will ever be that worried about them. as you said, there's a carefree attitude here. and I mean, look at this thread -- people can't work up the care to press a couple of buttons that they ultimately don't care about.

    Utopian as fuck?

    no, just very pessimistic on the possibility for change. and I mean, this thread is good reason to be, but I think the effect of this will be that most people choose to tag themselves. a similar kind of back and forth will happen with CW (I doubt as severe as there isn't the same perception of moral judgement at play) and ultimately, I'd rather this be a safe space than an unsafe one. people get hurt here and that gets old real fast.