The user was banned, and I didn't feel like it would be worth anything but more bait for the flamebaiters. I literally misgendered Caden ONCE, and it was full on a typo and apologizing to someone who literally compared me and other mods to abuser was pretty triggering to the PTSD I have from being raped, beaten and nearly killed by someone who said to me "I love you" everyday.

So, sorry I wasn't really on board with apologizing right away, but if you were in my shoes, would you apologize immediately to someone who invalidates your trauma?