When I was younger, I was pretty insecure and did. But as I get older, it just feels like work and stress, and if I need to know something, I'll just ask them.
Or should I make well sure that they're not a Nazi or something?
Or should I make well sure that they’re not a Nazi or something?
Ideally, this is what talking is for.
if they're on social media at all, that's a red flag ladies!
I dont touch my partners' social media, and I'd feel weird if they touched mine, but wouldn't care that much.
Ask for permission before doing it
I mean I did the same thing, but as I grew up I felt this stemmed from insecurity, and it's all'n all to better just talk to the individual straight up. I think a level of it is normal for those in the internet age, but outside of making sure the person isn't a nazi or just seeing what they post, it's not beneficial imo. Whatcha gon do? Bring up that they commented on someone else's thirst post or something? Like, it's just not cohesive in the long run for a healthy relationship y'know?
