Sometimes my brain, man…
wtf do people do that?? I've masturbated to some weird stuff but never to someone that I personally knew
I have only ever had a crush crush on one person and I'm not in contact with them anymore
Thesis: Keeping it to oneself.
Antithesis: Dishing on the hot sexy details.
Synthesis: Dishing on the hot sexy details behind a spoiler tag.
Tamest fucking shit imaginable. You must be a Christian or had a Christian upbringing.
quite the opposite, the Christian mind is a place of sexual repression and perversion therefore their sex is more fun if used to the full potential
I like to think I had just the right amount of Catholic upbringing. Not enough to prevent me from having fun in adulthood through some weird guilt thing, and just enough as an adolescent to kickstart the forbidden-fruit fantasies.
Unless it's me, because I'll just be flattered for a couple of minutes before I tell you that you need higher standards.
its human and normal, posting about it on hexbear is not, there are better forums. just dont be weird around them. or tell anyone.
i think this site is more sex-moralist than most left spaces tbh. idk what the solution is. might involve re-opening /c/dating, which i think would probably have catastrophic effects on the active user numbers.
oh yeah no one here is normal about sex, you gotta pick a different website.
The volcel police while bastards are an important part of keeping this site from getting weird and smelling funny
Didn't c/dating last less than 24 hours last time?
What happened? That’s impressively quick to get closed.
Really nothing, it was only ever opened to be closed as a weird bit about how we couldn't handle it.
That’s probably the most on brand answer possible.
If you think that's moralist, just remember that Lemmygrad has a community named "Are the Straights Ok?", where the striaghts, of course, say the most batshit things.
Edit: I know its funny, but its still a bit moralist, dontcha think?
might involve re-opening /c/dating, which i think would probably have catastrophic effects on the active user numbers.
why?
They're at the stage where they're asking strangers on the internet for advice, it's definitely already weird with whoever they're crushing on
Maybe that's a bit mean, but I still don't know why you'd ever ask internet strangers for relationship advice.
but I still don't know why you'd ever ask internet strangers for relationship advice.
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There is a huge body of literature about that. It is good when people ask. The discussion if hexbear is a good place for that is another one.If you look into BBS (old internet sites in the 90s) you will find a ton of LGBTQ* people asking strangers for "relationship advice", like: "Is it normal to get horny as dude when I think about my dude best friend?". All in all the thread feels a bit US sex moral centric.
I think If they went to a sex and relationship forum it would have been cringe but not too bad ya know. but yeah the vibes aren't great, but I try to assume the best.
there is no problem with them posting their query here because this is a niche internet site like reddit and 4chan and should be nothing more than that as it allows freedom of thought and exploration of rare weirdness. Taking oneself too seriously is one of the many cancers killing the internet
thats true, I just this HEXBEAR is the wrong site, have you met the people here? lol, you're right though I shouldn't care about cringe what was that meme?
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I like this sequence of revelations. "That's fucked up" -> "okay it's not fucked up but it's cringe" -> "maybe cringe is okay"
the single caveat is that during the act there must be a remembrance of stalin
you can fantasize about anyone you want, as long as within the fantasy there are equal power relations and enthusiastic consent. however, if you fantasize w/out those preconditions met, you're required to go to (fantasy) woke jail, and you must then fantasize about continually upbraiding yourself for being a little pervert.
because the friend in question is on hexbear and they're trying to send signals
Lol not sure you’re you’re joking but the friend in question is very much irl and someone i care about deeply
You didn't think twice about letting a bunch of strangers know you're horny for your friend, so I can't imagine it's that much of a moral quandary
Yes a friend you all clearly seem to know the identity of. I don’t see the correlation here.
Ok, let me rephrase, you're clearly not off-putted by the idea enough to stop you from telling us about it. I don't think it's bad, it's just that the question being a bit redundant is kinda funny to me.
I mean, I’m more concerned with me jerking it in the context of my friendship with this person and less with what people in a largely anonymous msg board think of the act
is it wrong? no, bud, it's jerkin off. but is it potentially deleterious to your friendship if you don't get a grip on your feelings? might be! that's something you ought to be wary of!
Do you mean the thought of a specific real friend, or just the idea of having a friend?
This person has friends instead of an endless parade of rods and holes?
I feel like I have learned something about other people from this thread, not bad just surprising
I feel like I have learned something about other people from this thread, not bad just surprising
what is it?
The fact that the most upbeared comment is saying that it's okay just don't talk about it. Idk it seems like something that is beyond the pale for me but not for most people i guess, like they could just like not do it or jack off to something else instead, there's nothing compelling anyone to do it
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