I'm thinking skullit, handle bar mustache, wears silk shirts open to his belly button to show off his hairy chest and gold chains.

But like, he's a solid dude who watches out for his female friends.

  • Lussy [any, hy/hym]
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    1 month ago

    Glad this is in badposting because it's truly awful. Tons of 'ugly'/sleezy looking guys who aren't misogynists.

    here, how's this one:

    Bit idea: white girl or guy who likes anime and isn't a nazi

  • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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    1 month ago

    Uhh, this is actually my aspirational goal, so watch this space.

    I can't afford gold chains tho.

  • Infamousblt [any]
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    1 month ago

    Okay I have actually been accused of being this dude before in much this way and I find it hilarious. I help organize a queer support space in my community on the regular and I have on more than one occasion had people tell me they were a bit like "oh god one of THOSE guys" when they first saw me from across the room, and then they met me and found out that no actually I work really hard with the other organizers to make the space we're in safe for them and everyone else and they feel kinda bad about it. I don't blame them at all and totally understand where they're coming from....lots of dudes be creepy AF and unless you talked to me and realized not only am I not creepy I'm not even sure I'm a dude at all how would you know?

    So basically I'm already doing this bit and although it makes me feel bad once in a while mostly it's just funny and I understand. So GOOD bit I highly recommend it as long as you can handle the slight sting to your ego when you realize people see you and think you're a sleazeball.

    • goose [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      I know bit ideas are your bit, but preemptively doing someone else's bit idea irl is just taking things too far

    • frauddogg [they/them, null/void]
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      1 month ago

      I've taken to calling that the "Gale Dekarios effect" because I had that exact same reaction seeing a human white male wizard as one of the potential party members in BG3; and 'human white male wizard' is probably the second most boring thing next to 'human white male fighter'-- and then he popped out of a rock with the most awkward charm; and then the backstory started hitting.

  • ashinadash [she/her]
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    1 month ago

    Only now realising that there are physical connotations of perviness

    • Riffraffintheroom [none/use name]
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      1 month ago

      Apparently hunching, rubbing my hands together and snickering conspiratorially on the bus sends the “”””wrong signals””””.