It is probably due to a number of people stopping using their alts after some instance hopping.

Also a few people who came to see how it was, and weren't attracted enough to become regular visitors.

Curious to see at which number we'll stabilize.

Next peak will probably happen after either major features release (e.g. exhaustive mod tools allowing reluctant communities to move from Reddit) or the next Reddit fuck up (e.g. removing old.reddit)

Stats on each server: https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/list

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  • Margot Robbie@lemm.ee
    ·
    1 year ago

    And at the beginning everyone was worried about "Eternal September". It's only been two months.

    People will come in waves, instances and communities will grow and die, just like how it was on reddit, we'll probably start seeing meme/politics free or even more specialized instances soon. But all of this is going to take time.

    The turning point will be when companies/websites start spinning up their own Lemmy instances as their official one to replace their forums, which I think will happen.

    So, being on Lemmy is a long term investment for me.

      • Margot Robbie@lemm.ee
        ·
        1 year ago

        Hopefully this works out, gotta get that first mover advantage in, then Lemmy's only real celebrity will be recognized as the marketing genius that she is. :)

        I like Lemmy better when it's when it's nicer and quieter a month ago honestly.

        • Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de
          hexagon
          ·
          1 year ago

          Ha ha :)

          Same feeling here, browsing All now is cumbersome due to the low quality of the average content dropping

          • Margot Robbie@lemm.ee
            ·
            1 year ago

            Yeah, so that's why I'm expecting way more alt hopping and defederations and people splitting into smaller groups soon until everything finally settles.

            One of advantage of the fediverse honestly that it prevents powertripping mods, since it's so easy to move to another community on the same topic on a different instance with different admins and mods, and while a person can be banned off a particular comm or instance, they can't be banned from Lemmy as a whole, so reputation matters a lot more right now when everybody kinda knows each other here.

    • FoxBJK@midwest.social
      ·
      1 year ago

      The turning point will be when companies/websites start spinning up their own Lemmy instances as their official one to replace their forums, which I think will happen.

      I don't know if this is going to happen, and to be honest I hope it doesn't. Lemmy is not designed to be a forum and shouldn't try to be used as a replacement for one.

  • Oppawaifu@lemmy.sdf.org
    ·
    1 year ago

    There is no infinite doomscroll on Lemmy and that's what I used to do on Reddit. Now, I just read the top headlines and touch grass :)

    • lagomorphlecture@lemm.ee
      ·
      1 year ago

      The reason I'm still here instead of there is that I absolutely can't use their official app. I just can't. It's so awful. Lemmy isn't perfect but at least it isn't that. So I do spend less time doom scrolling and that's probably good for me.

    • quellik@lemmy.ml
      ·
      1 year ago

      Same here, I actually have a much healthier relationship with social media when on Lemmy vs Reddit. That might change as Lemmy grows in user content but for now I’ll enjoy the quieter experience

    • kratoz29@lemm.ee
      ·
      1 year ago

      I agree, I finish up my daily feed (at the moment I am subscribed to 628 communities).

    • TheMadnessKing@lemdro.id
      ·
      1 year ago

      The number of times Lemmy.world was down made it unusable for me to use. Switched to Lemdro.id and it's so much better now.

    • 𝘋𝘪𝘳𝘬@lemmy.ml
      ·
      1 year ago

      lemmy.ml was also down recently for half a day or so. But lemmy.ml was never knwon for being reliable, even it it works fine since some time now.

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      • Die4Ever@programming.dev
        ·
        1 year ago

        It’s a basic catch-22 - you need new users to attract new users.

        This is the best thing about federation.

        If the Fediverse became really popular and I created a new alternative to Lemmy/Kbin that was significantly better than both, it would be way easier to gain the momentum required to become a real player in the field compared to trying to compete with Reddit when most people aren't in the Fediverse yet.

        • combat_brandonism [they/them]
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          edit-2
          1 year ago

          The only one that has died since the end of Digg was Vine, and that was partially just because its owners didn't really care about its fate anymore.

          Vine was killed by facebook & its regulatory capture. Otherwise it would've killed facebook and we never would've gotten tik tok (for better or worse).

          FB, the gram and now twitter are dying. Just because they still exist doesn't mean they're not on their way out. Anyone with accounts on the first two can tell you that the number of active users on their feeds has been the same people for 5-10 years and are dwindling (and the feed of the third is lmao since boosting paid user content). Their traffic numbers might look fine but that's because they lie about those numbers and they make it impossible to delete accounts.

          Most importantly, it's been 15 years since any of these companies couldn't get free financing. Often a focus on profitability results in misplaced user-hostility over short-sighted moves, which is what killed a lot of companies in 99 and again in 2007. We just haven't had a financial climate that requires it since. Hilariously this climate would make it a perfect time to take twitter private to push it past the other two and tik tok but it got bought by the worst failson the world has ever seen.

          Don't mistake still existing for not being dead. Digg.com still employs dozens of people, that doesn't mean its been a useful link aggregator for the last 12 years.

  • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
    ·
    1 year ago

    There are many fatal problems on Lemmy, worst of all is you can't click this link /c/books and see every /c/book on every Lemmy instance of the fediverse. This is out of convenience to moderators and it is killing Lemmy. One people figure out communities only exist on a single instance, the promise of federation is broken and they fuck off.

          • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
            ·
            1 year ago

            Propagation and agglomeration is a problem for clients not servers. Server only need to propagate a "we have new stuff" message and it's up to the clients to pull it and cache it. In any case, users should be able to click /c/books and see the content of all /book/ on all instances in a single location. Unless most users can do this with one click, there will not exist a fediverse wide community.

        • Die4Ever@programming.dev
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          1 year ago

          but there is this https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/issues/818

          and https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy-ui/issues/1113

          • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
            ·
            1 year ago

            "multireddit" are nice to have but they do not address this problem Which a common view for all user of an entire community across the fediverse. "Multireddit" require client to pick and choose individual communities. This means less than 1% of users will every use it. This means there will never exist a fediverse wide community around topics.

    • stalinblows@discuss.tchncs.de
      ·
      1 year ago

      There is no way for a user to block whole instances, there is no way to know if you've been banned from a community or instance, it's extremely easy for people to evade bans and blocks, you can't make private communities, armies of extremists are brigading other instances and they're exploiting Lemmy's flaws to do it, the list goes on and on.

      Lemmy blows, but give the rubes time. They'll figure it out.

      • Chapo_is_Red [he/him]
        ·
        1 year ago

        armies of extremists are brigading other instances and they're exploiting Lemmy's flaws to do it

        It crazy how these people can get their bs to show up in my main feed, and then if I comment on it they call me a troll

      • wanderingmagus@lemm.ee
        ·
        1 year ago

        There's instance-wide blocking on the Connect for Lemmy app, including the option to block everything or only block the communities of that instance and not users. You can make a private community by not federating with anyone on a private instance.

        • bitsplease@lemmy.ml
          ·
          1 year ago

          does this also block comments, or only posts? Sync has a similar feature, but only for posts, once inside a post you're still subjected to their comments. Which for troll communities is honestly the worst part

          • CoderKat@lemm.ee
            ·
            1 year ago

            IMO ideally there'd be two separate options. I want to block stuff like foreign language instances or some niche instances so that I don't see communities hosted on them, but I don't want to block the users from those instances when they post in other communities.

          • wanderingmagus@lemm.ee
            ·
            1 year ago

            Connect for Lemmy has an option for blocking both. The comment still shows, but as "blocked by filter", which hides the content until clicked on, and can be re-hid.

        • stalinblows@discuss.tchncs.de
          ·
          1 year ago

          Those are just cop-outs. They need to be hard-coded features on the original Lemmy app. If we have to rely on third-party apps for it, we can and should just use another fediverse app entirely.

          I hope someone forks Lemmy at some point.

      • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
        ·
        1 year ago

        That's a trivial problem to fix client side. Same as any regular spam filter. If Lemmy gives that power server side to be moderators instead of clients, then Lemmy will become a North Korea style dictatorship like Reddit.

    • KᑌᔕᕼIᗩ@lemmy.ml
      ·
      1 year ago

      I would love to see something like this where it shows you content from communities with the same name across whatever your server is federated with.

      • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
        ·
        1 year ago

        They don't but they get aglomerated together anyway for having the same name . The community is the whole, which specific instance is hosting a particular /c/book post doesn't matter. That it is on /c/book is what matters, not that it is on Lemmy.world

          • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
            ·
            1 year ago

            If people have to hunt each post storage location individually, then it will be as if they don't exist to 99.99% users. What will happen is there will be one big one, and they most likely be all on the big instance, and federation becomes just a weird thing that does nothing because functionally that will be just like Reddit. Centralized servers, centralized servers under the control of a tiny priesthood.

            • JackbyDev@programming.dev
              ·
              1 year ago

              Not at all. Reddit has communities that are similar but with different names, rules, and culture and different people use them because they want different experiences. The same is true here.

              • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
                ·
                1 year ago

                The crucial difference is that those are differentiated by having a unique name, note a unique hostname. Which hard drive a community is stored should not be considered an important aspect of that community. It only specifies who is allowed to delete and edit content posted to that harddrive

                • JackbyDev@programming.dev
                  ·
                  1 year ago

                  That's like saying everyone that lives on 123 Main St is the same regardless of the city or everyone with the email "Bob" is the same regardless of what their email provider is.

                  • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
                    ·
                    1 year ago

                    Lemmy has nothing to do with email. I'm sick and tired of this incorrect analogy being used to explain how Lemmy works and people stubbornly not understanding why it's broken because of it.

                    If you think it through, what you're asking is that the communities will exist only on one server. That's Reddit with extra steps.

                    • JackbyDev@programming.dev
                      ·
                      1 year ago

                      Goober, I am literally not asking that and yes this is very similar to email. My home instance is programming.dev. We are both still talking. I did not have to make an account on lemmy.ml to respond to you here. I did not even have to go to lemmy.ml to see or respond to this post. This community does not "exist only on one server" by any means.

                      • interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml
                        ·
                        1 year ago

                        Yes because we're in a server default subscription. A server decided list of viable communities, probably a list shared across the fediverse. Again a gayekeeping system by the system elites

                        We are in the !fediverse! community, only big one that exists.

                        It's double centralization. This is recreating Reddit.

                        • JackbyDev@programming.dev
                          ·
                          1 year ago

                          You're moving the goal posts, you're talking about default subscriptions being a problem now. That's totally different. And besides, it wasn't on my server and yet I found this.

  • imgonnatrythis@lemm.ee
    ·
    1 year ago

    Pretty sure it's going to just be like 12 of us. If the third party app thing on reddit didn't drive users here, unfortunately I don't think anything else will. At this point if you are already content with the reddit app it's going to be a hard sell to say, yeah come check out Lemmy, it's like reddit but if you have a question about your sick betta fish instead of getting a helpful answer in a few minutes, you need to first create a betta fish community, then go back on reddit and recruit users to your Lemmy community. Post content on it daily to maintain interest, and then, if you are really lucky, ask your question and wait a few months and maybe if your fish is still alive (doubtful), you might get a response, but it will probably be just be an anticapitalist shit-post. I'm sorry to say it is this way, but this be the way that it is.

    • Venus [she/her]
      ·
      1 year ago

      Pretty sure it's going to just be like 12 of us

      Hexbear has been very active for 3 years before we even federated. There's plenty of room for growth. We're not going to become reddit (and that's a good thing) but acting like it's just going to die (or is already dead) is just ridiculous

      • imgonnatrythis@lemm.ee
        ·
        1 year ago

        Hexbear has become a cesspool. Not exactly a great example to aspire to. I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day. I very much enjoyed that experience and want it back. I'm sure plenty of others do to. Im just disappointed that it seems much more likely that Lemmy fizzles than soars. I can't emphasize enough how big and bad a deal the stripping of third party API access to reddit data is. I wish more people felt more strongly about this beyond posting pictures of John Oliver. Not sure if you are old enough to remember when high quality RSS feeds were a thing, but this direct access to data that users could custom curate was amazing. When you take control of how users consent data, you start to take control of the users. Lemmy has immense potential and at face value people are largely fed up with being manipulated and taken advantage of by internet giants, but most are clearly not fed up enough to leave their comfort zone. Spez and the others are well aware of this and happy to take advantage. It takes a ton of effort to keep something like Lemmy afloat. Just like a new restaurant, if after a few months it's not taking off, it's pretty unlikely to do so with more time. I hope I'm wrong, but the Spez nonsense was a huge gift to growing Lemmy, and in the grand scheme of things the effect was quite small.

        • Venus [she/her]
          ·
          1 year ago

          Hexbear has become a cesspool

          Hexbear is an aggressively inclusive space full of thoughtful people who are passionate about making the world a better place and educating their fellow man. If every online space were more like hexbear we'd all be much better off

          I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day. I very much enjoyed that experience and want it back. I'm sure plenty of others do to

          Oh yeah back in the good old days of /r/jailbait and /r/creepshots and /r/sexwithdogs

          • LoopingRiver@lemm.ee
            ·
            1 year ago

            Lol.. so inclusive wanting to bring down America, listing out a bunch of people you’d love to get rid of (anyone you consider bourgeoise), unyielding fanboying of China…

            I think the overall Lemmy experience has gone downhill since hexbear federated. I also think seeing the propaganda posts constantly hitting the All feed will drive people away. Are there even any non-political hexbear communities? All I ever see are anti-is and pro-China posts.

            I still can’t wrap my head around being so pro-trans rights (a fabulous thing), yet in the same breath simping for China. Not the most stellar LGBTQIA+ record there.

            • Venus [she/her]
              ·
              1 year ago

              Everything is political. We have comms that we don't consider political, but you would still consider them political because you would rather they cater to your politics rather than ours. We have !games@hexbear.net for example, but because it's not a liberal comm you would consider it political.

              I still can’t wrap my head around being so pro-trans rights (a fabulous thing), yet in the same breath simping for China

              You're literally professing your support for trans rights and simping for the US in one comment so you must be mega confused

            • ProxyTheAwesome [comrade/them]
              ·
              1 year ago

              so inclusive wanting to bring down America

              Yes. America is the pre-eminent fascist violence force on Earth and must be brought down for the good of humanity

              • atomicfox@lemm.ee
                ·
                1 year ago

                Not having America around to keep Russia and China in check sounds great for humanity 👍

                • Flaps [he/him]
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                  edit-2
                  1 year ago

                  Damn you really kept them in check when you bombed Iraq back to the stone age

                  You also really kept China in check when you moved your entire industrial capacity there

                • SeventyTwoTrillion [he/him]
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                  edit-2
                  1 year ago

                  "What if they invaded, pillaged, and coup'd the countries WE were going to invade, pillage, and coup! Can you imagine the tragedy?! Better that us, The Good Guys, exploit these countries than The Bad Guys!"

            • eatmyass
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              11 months ago

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            • Annakah69 [she/her]
              ·
              1 year ago

              If you can't wrap your head around being trans and supporting China you need to stop consuming MSM and examine your assumptions.

            • sharedburdens [she/her, comrade/them]
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              1 year ago

              I live in the US and it's pretty bad for LGBT people here. I don't feel the need to cheerlead US interventions because they have a coat of rainbow paint.

            • silent_water [she/her]
              ·
              1 year ago

              think the overall Lemmy experience has gone downhill since hexbear federated.

              sicko-hexbear

            • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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              edit-2
              1 year ago

              so inclusive wanting to bring down America

              Paradox of tolerance, babyyy

              I still can’t wrap my head around being so pro-trans rights (a fabulous thing), yet in the same breath simping for China.

              Cuba supports both

        • eatmyass
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          11 months ago

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        • ProxyTheAwesome [comrade/them]
          ·
          1 year ago

          It's less of a cesspool than every other lemmy instance I've visited which is filled with Reddit-tier libs

        • Grebgreb [he/him]
          ·
          1 year ago

          I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day

          reddit back in the day had a huge jailbait sub

          Hexbear has become a cesspool

          lol

          • WhyIsItReal [he/him]
            ·
            1 year ago

            i mean, yeah. if you insult someone, they’ll typically defend themselves

            • GBU_28@lemm.ee
              ·
              1 year ago

              "insult" sure.

              He effectively called a porcupine spikey.

              What's funny about hexbear is the users reflexively rise to the fight every single time, they can't just scroll past.

              Taiwan #1

              • silent_water [she/her]
                ·
                1 year ago

                yes, it's on purpose - we actively discourage lurking and encourage engaging with bad takes. the more you complain about it, the harder we go at it.

                • GBU_28@lemm.ee
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                  1 year ago

                  "bad take" really depends what side of the echo chamber you are on.

                  Y'all respond to criticism like kim jong un is standing right behind you lol

                  Also we aren't in hexbear right now

                  • silent_water [she/her]
                    ·
                    1 year ago

                    obviously whether a take is bad or not depends on your politics. it's so obvious I'm surprised you'd bother pointing it out.

                    Y'all respond to criticism like kim jong un is standing right behind you lol

                    this isn't criticism. it's just a snide aside.

                    Also we aren't in hexbear right now

                    again, obviously.

                  • Bakzik [he/him, comrade/them]
                    ·
                    1 year ago

                    We are in a Federated instance. So we can participate, as long we follow Da rulez.

                    But you miss your reddit-logo echochamber, don't you?

                    xi-lib-tears

                    • GBU_28@lemm.ee
                      ·
                      1 year ago

                      Right, being in a federated instance isn't lurking. Glad we agree.

                      And no I don't, I've had a few meaningful discussing with some true leftists but most of y'all only have a knee jerk reaction available to criticism. You end up pushing near-allies away for lacking your dogmatic devotion, seemingly to xi? As you have a bunch of photos of him saved?

                      • Bakzik [he/him, comrade/them]
                        ·
                        1 year ago

                        As you have a bunch of photos of him saved?

                        xi xi

                        dogmatic devotion, seemingly to xi?

                        che-smile che-smile

                        You should come to Hexbear. Have a real look around. Not being a fan of NATO bombing (like Yugoslavia) or puting children in cages at concentration camps at the border, doesn't mean someone is a dogmatic follower of China. But they are far better that USA, that's for sure.

                        But come to Hexbear, let's challenge years and years of western indoctrination. And we also have an awesome colletion of emojis! (or, as you call it, "photos").

                        fidel-cool

              • WhyIsItReal [he/him]
                ·
                1 year ago

                you’re saying calling something a “cesspool” isn’t insulting?

              • GarbageShoot [he/him]
                ·
                1 year ago

                "insult" sure.

                He effectively called a porcupine spikey.

                Wonder how the porcupine got its spikes . . . Must be its authoritarian personality!

            • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
              ·
              1 year ago

              You think collectively antagonizing, using "libs" in a derogatory form and calling others "imperialist running dogs" constitutes as defense and not toxic behavior?

              • Commiejones [comrade/them, he/him]
                ·
                1 year ago

                Calling out imperialist running dogs isn't toxic. Just like being aggressively anti-racist isn't toxic. If a person upholds capitalism, which is by nature exploitive and anti-egalitarian, they are toxic and deserving of rebuke.

                • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                  ·
                  1 year ago

                  So as long as they don't ideologically agree with you it's acceptable to be toxic towards them, because their "wrong ideology" makes them toxic?

                  Are you also aware that most of the proletariats unknowingly uphold capitalism? Considering you say they're toxic are you against the proletariat or are you a fake socialist trying to create a class divide, the ones who agree with you and the ones who don't, within the proletariat?

                  • silent_water [she/her]
                    ·
                    1 year ago

                    if you asked questions in good faith, you'd know that the community is also aggressively welcoming to such people, even when we disagree. but you don't so you won't.

                    • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                      ·
                      1 year ago

                      It's bad faith to automatically assume someone being critical is doing it in bad faith.

                          • silent_water [she/her]
                            ·
                            1 year ago

                            it's not directed at you. I'm explaining why we react strongly in general.

                            • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                              ·
                              1 year ago

                              Alright, so others are in "bad faith"? How do you know? Just based on one interaction with them?

                              • silent_water [she/her]
                                ·
                                1 year ago

                                how they respond to detailed replies or lack thereof, snide, use of thought-terminating cliches, and hostility

                                • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                                  ·
                                  1 year ago

                                  Let's forget forget about the rest of our discussion and focus solely on the very first response you wrote to me. Based on that response I could've applied that same thought process you just described, decided that you're here in bad faith and respond in the way Hexbear users tend to reply. And all this current discussion wouldn't have ever happened because based on that response you'd believe I'm here in bad faith and responded in kind. In fact that way no discussion would've happened.

                                  The way we communicate is prone to errors and misinterpretations. It's why I'm focusing on your your first response because it's an excellent example of miscommunication. You used "you" which implies it's directed at me, but in a later response you clarify that it wasn't directed at me. Thus discussions require a certain level of benefit of doubt, because it's actually very easy to misrepresent what was said and just as easy to misinterpret what was said. I gave you that benefit of doubt and we seem to be having a rather civil discussion. And I've already somewhat explained what would've happened if I hadn't given it. That benefit of doubt is crucial if you're wanting to discuss in good faith, because you need to give a chance to correct miscommunications.

                                  And that's why I think the thought process you've described is a bad faith thought process, because it doesn't give the benefit of the doubt. At least that is my general experience with Hexbear users. Someone says something disagreeable in a manner that could be misinterpreted in the way you described and it's very rare to see a Hexbear user give the benefit of doubt. Instead you see, well everything here. One guy says Hexbear is a cesspool and seemingly only one of you gives him some benefit of doubt, the rest very much troll, antagonize, make snide remarks etc. The vast majority of you responded in the same way you'd claim someone else is responding in bad faith. What if he previously had a miscommunication that Hexbear users didn't give benefit of the doubt either? He gets piled on in a manner you've described as bad faith. With those bad faith responses he now believes you are all acting bad faith, hence the cesspool remark. And what is the response he gets? More bad faith responses from Hexbear users because the vast majority don't give him any benefit of doubt.

                                  You think others act out in bad faith so you respond in bad faith which makes others believe you act in bad faith which prompts more of you to act in bad faith. It's a a bad faith feedback loop. Genuine question, what's the goal of such behavior?

                                  • silent_water [she/her]
                                    ·
                                    1 year ago

                                    my first response was directed at you. the second was not. I was answering the question you asked.

                                    Genuine question, what's the goal of such behavior?

                                    to apply adequate pushback to erroneous understandings of the world. the goal isn't to convince the interlocutor. it's to encourage the people reading to investigate the topic. on many of the topics in question, the history and ideologies involved take entire books to deconstruct - doing so in an internet comment is extraordinarily difficult. the people we're talking to don't even agree with us on the meanings of basic words - there's not even a basis for debate. because such debate is so unproductive, the aggressive tone encourages many people to stop and ask more serious questions. this undoubtedly works because so many of the posters on hexbear responded in exactly that way here or on reddit at some point in the past. and when they asked those questions, they got detailed answers, including links to sources so they could investigate for themselves. in actual fact, many of the people on hexbear received exactly the kind of aggressive pushback you're decrying and ended up eventually convinced that our viewpoint had something to offer.

                                    and as point of fact, when someone starts asking questions, we'll tell each other to stop treating them so harshly cause they're acting in good faith. that courtesy is not extended to people who continue down a path of antagonism. nor is it offered to someone who devolves into racism, transphobia, or other forms of bigotry. one of the benefits of the aggressive approach is that it encourages so many bigots to immediately out themselves.

                                    lastly, civility is not an unmitigated good unto itself. civility is the false peace -- it masks tensions, pretending they don't exist. real peace is not civility -- it's a state in which tensions are brought to the fore so they can actually be resolved. civility is a white, middle class sensibility -- our world is incredibly fucked up and the people affected by it do not owe anyone that masking of the horrors of our world. nor do we owe anyone an education they will neither ask for nor appreciate.

                                    • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
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                                      1 year ago

                                      to apply adequate pushback to erroneous understandings of the world. the goal isn’t to convince the interlocutor. it’s to encourage the people reading to investigate the topic. on many of the topics in question, the history and ideologies involved take entire books to deconstruct - doing so in an internet comment is extraordinarily difficult. the people we’re talking to don’t even agree with us on the meanings of basic words - there’s not even a basis for debate. because such debate is so unproductive, the aggressive tone encourages many people to stop and ask more serious questions. this undoubtedly works because so many of the posters on hexbear responded in exactly that way here or on reddit at some point in the past. and when they asked those questions, they got detailed answers, including links to sources so they could investigate for themselves. in actual fact, many of the people on hexbear received exactly the kind of aggressive pushback you’re decrying and ended up eventually convinced that our viewpoint had something to offer.

                                      Maybe at one point but if recent events are of any indication that is hardly true anymore. The reason these defederation threads prop up if your aggressive presentation made people inquisitive. It's an indication that people respond negatively to such behavior. And I'm inclined to believe people respond more negatively than positively because the responses I've seen about subject I know about have been less about making people inquisitive and more about just throwing in their face that they don't understand something the same way you do without explaining anything.

                                      lastly, civility is not an unmitigated good unto itself. civility is the false peace – it masks tensions, pretending they don’t exist. real peace is not civility – it’s a state in which tensions are brought to the fore so they can actually be resolved. civility is a white, middle class sensibility – our world is incredibly fucked up and the people affected by it do not owe anyone that masking of the horrors of our world.

                                      I disagree. Yes, there's no space for niceness as you need to be ready for conflict to test your ideas and beliefs. But it doesn't mean we should completely disregard civility. Are you really going to take me seriously if I call you shitstain in this post, bitch lover the next, steamy turd the next etc? I know I wouldn't take anything you say seriously if you came with such disrespect. Similarly I have no problem trolling the living shit out of you, but that already means I have zero respect for you or your beliefs and nothing you say or do will even get true critical examination, outside of how to better troll back. I could easily derail this discussion, drag you down into shit slinging contest and then sling shit until you stop responding but that's pretty far from civil discourse and not at all constructive. Discourse needs to have some mutual respect and if none is given then none is received, which means the discussion will go nowhere. The world is fucked but slinging shit between eachother doesn't really unfuck the world.

                                      nor do we owe anyone an education they will neither ask for nor appreciate

                                      And this is probably where we completely disagree. Your stance is that nobody asks or appreciates it so we shouldn't give it unless they really ask. I believe we should give it regardless because it's still a chance for them to open up to something new. I would've never familiarized myself with Das Kapital if not for someone else explaining to me that Marxist understanding of "capital" is not the same as "capital" taught to you in school. Had someone told me "How did they get the fucking money mf?" I would probably still believe capitalism is not that bad. Explaining socialism to someone who won't listen doesn't take a piece out of me, so why should I act like it does? To me it's a net positive. If someone listens and becomes a socialist that's good and if someone doesn't listen then really nothing actually bad happens because as you said, the world is fucked regardless.

                  • SmokinStalin [comrade/them]
                    ·
                    1 year ago

                    Those are good questions that you could get good honest answers to if you wanted. Other hexbearians are much more articulate than me.

                    We are aggressively welcoming to anyone who's genuinely just trying to learn. stalin-approval

                  • GarbageShoot [he/him]
                    ·
                    1 year ago

                    So as long as they don't ideologically agree with you it's acceptable to be toxic towards them, because their "wrong ideology" makes them toxic?

                    Think about this in the context of, idk, race science or something. Let's say you have someone who is openly a big fan of Charles Murray, owns a copy of The Bellcurve, gets the whole nine yards. Would you deny that such a person is necessarily toxic?

                    • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
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                      1 year ago

                      Actually, without any other context, I would. I would label them as misguided. Just because they believe in what I believe as the wrong thing doesn't mean they're automatically toxic. If they're unwilling to even consider alternate perspectives or decide to just be antagonistic then they're toxic.

                      • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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                        1 year ago

                        So if they come in swinging about how they "don't deny" that black people are genetically less intelligent and say that their opposition is either propagandized or propagandists, that would tilt the scales for you?

                        • GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                          ·
                          1 year ago

                          Why would it? If they're open for discussion there's clearly something to discuss.

                          • GarbageShoot [he/him]
                            ·
                            1 year ago

                            We might be running into a Nazi Bar, paradox of tolerance type issue here. If you treat him that way, there's a fair chance that he's just going to use the opportunity to propagandize to whoever will listen.

        • HornyOnMain🏳️‍⚧️@lemmy.ml
          ·
          1 year ago

          I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day.

          A libertarian infested hell site that was most well known for just being 4chan lite and actively harbouring pedo communities?

    • Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de
      hexagon
      ·
      1 year ago

      12 of us

      I'm fine with 12 of us if everyone is active.

      Hopefully by then we'll have a few active communities and not hundreds of ghost towns like now

    • mars [none/use name]
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      1 year ago

      Long time hexbear user, I've actually had pretty good luck getting input on non-political questions. No sick fish, but I've asked quite a variety of questions and gotten help. Maybe I would have gotten a higher quality answer on Reddit, but my experience with modern reddit (last 6ish years) has been hit or miss. Reminds me in a way of the forums I used back in the really 2000s. Even though the forums I was on were primarily oriented around tabletop gaming, the "general/off-topic" sections would have quite a variety of people and interests. And those people, since they all had a common interest, were far more talkative and generous with their time than what I've experienced in Reddit. IMO this makes up for the smaller population. Hexbear has that vibe for me, just with a non-sectarian socialist shitposting focus. Which works for me.

    • OrangeSlice@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      Key difference is that Bitcoin people want/need their numbers to go up,up,up as a measure of success.

      Here, we are hoping to cultivate a healthy community (at either/both the instance and fediverse level). From my experience on various subreddits, focusing on growth is not a good way to do this.

      Communities are defined more by who is not allowed in than by who is in the community. Lemmy phase 2 kicked off back in June, and it still needs some time to find its footing at a sustainable rate of growth.

  • Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de
    hexagon
    ·
    1 year ago

    That's a personal opinion, but I would also be happy to see some groups spread on different communities to decide together on one community and make it grow together.

    Browsing /all and seeing still another book or gaming community first post always makes me question if that post would not be better used in an established community.

    And I know this will happen naturally overtime, I guess sometimes I would just like things to happen a bit faster and on a organized way.

    • Hot Saucerman@lemmy.ml
      ·
      1 year ago

      I personally don't mind having multiple communities on different servers because some of these servers go down... a lot.

      Makes sense to have "backups" sort of littered throughout the Fediverse, imho. I like seeing what different groups have to say about the subjects, too. Like, a thread will be wildly different on lemmy.world and beehaw.org, because I'm fairly sure beehaw is still defederated with lemmy.world, meaning I'll see very different groups of people on each instance's community.

  • masquenox@lemmy.ml
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    edit-2
    1 year ago

    When they remove old.reddit it's over for me - there is no browser I've tried that new.reddit hasn't managed to crash within a few minutes of using it.

    But I'll stay on old.reddit for as long as possible... there are just too many nazis and fascists waiting in the wings to hijack the communities I've put a lot effort into. It's better to just milk them for as long as possible.

    • Redecco@lemm.ee
      ·
      1 year ago

      By normal do you mean the protests have ended, or they undid some of the unpopular changes?

      • ReadFanon [any, any]
        ·
        1 year ago

        Rumour has it that Reddit has been banning accounts for misuse of API keys used to patch 3rd party Reddit apps.

        • Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de
          hexagon
          ·
          1 year ago

          I had a look, they are banning accounts with apps using other apps' keys.

          As long as someone uses their own key, they're fine

  • OgdenTO [he/him]
    ·
    1 year ago

    Are they getting rid of old.reddit???

    That's the only thing that makes the site readable. Damn.