No minors (WhyEssEff GTFO)

Talk dirty to each other

Practice flirting with anonymous comrades

  • TransComrade69
    1·
    4 years ago

    I went from being perpetually horny to semi-unironic volcel in the span of a month. Yeesh.

      • TransComrade69
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        4 years ago

        I'm realizing lately that sex is just never worth the stress and anxiety of trying to not sexually embarrass myself. I could simply not and do other things. 🤷‍♀️

      • TransComrade69
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        4 years ago

        I just have better stuff I could focus on than going through the process of meeting someone new, getting to know them, constantly wondering if they're just fetishizing me, yada yada yada. A FWB situation would be cool, but I'm kind of high maintenance, overbearing, and overall not worth the hassle for the lousy lay nor the friendship. 🤷‍♀️😂

        • Wmill [they/them]
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          4 years ago

          It is ultimately your decision what you want to do but still sometimes what we think can be our worse habits can be endearing to the right people. Whatever you choose to do I hope you find happiness.

          • TransComrade69
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            4 years ago

            Because I'm not looking to be used for experimentation, sought out as a novelty, or treated as a sex object just because I'm a chick with a dick. It feels gross to be sought out for that alone.

              • TransComrade69
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                4 years ago

                Here is a solid article explaining it. TLDR: My worth to people like that is based on my genitals and not who I am as a person and it's very dehumanizing.

                https://slate.com/human-interest/2014/10/trans-chasers-exploitive-admirers-who-harass-trans-people.html

                Please read it. :leslie-feinberg: