Everyone has this pain. Incel chuds are simply those with reactionary beliefs and actions to go along with it. You are not a chud, you are a comrade who is hurting, and that's ok. :Care-Comrade:
I spent all but a few months of my 29 years of life completely single and believing myself incapable of being in a loving relationship. Everything changed when I started HRT and came out as trans. I felt lovable and yearned to love another. I fantasized about relationships and remembered fondly the brief instances of intimacy I'd had before.
I started signing up for dating sites with hope in my heart.
That was in January 2020.
Although I've been alone now for just another year, it has been far more painful than all the years of singlehood before it combined. I dunno if it's because of social distancing making me lonelier in general, or hormonal changes, or the age I'm getting to, or prolly all of them... But the intensity with which I crave intimacy and love in my life has become almost unbearable.
My strategy is to just use a combination of venting, distracting, and crying to get myself through to the other side of this.
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edit: wtf that is their actual URL ?
Thinking about unironically going volcel, deleting all my porn and no longer masturbating. Wet dreams are a small price to pay to be free from it. Honestly it disgusts me anymore and I have the urge the watch harder and grosser shit.
Porn addiction is a very real thing and can have serious deleterious effects on your mental health. Good on you for recognizing and wanting to make a change. You can still masturbate without porn! And separating the mental link between pornography and masturbation could be the key to lasting porn abstinence. Good luck cumrade
Oh yeah I had a similar problem. It was years ago at this point when I was quite a bit younger, but I started wanting to watch pretty explicitly problematic stuff and realized it was time to step waaaayyyy back and change my habits for sure.
Like Kent said, it's certainly possible to detach porn from masturbation! Helps to have some fond memories, that's for sure, but I wish you luck in your goal!
This Valentine's Day has been depressing as fuck. Its not just that I'm alone, again, but I have not seen a single person other than my parents in months. I live in the countryside so when I go outside there's no one around. I don't have any reason to go into town and I don't want to make unnecessary journeys, so I just haven't left the house. I really miss my friends :sadness: :deeper-sadness:
Yeah, I'm in a similar situation friend. There might never be a back to normal, but there will be an after. Sometimes all there is to do is wait out the sucky parts of life.
I sabotaged a perfectly good thing I had going on like 5 years ago and I barely tried getting into another relationship since then since I'm apparently not ready for a real relationship yet.
Честит Трифон зарЯзан 😝😅 Much better to get drunk than let these lovebirds ruin the fun for everyone
