I'm talking like 45-57 years old (I'm 32)

  • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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    1 year ago

    You're welcome to join my expedition to go back to 19th century Vienna and kill Freud. The time machine is finished. We're leaving on Tuesday. You need to bring your own gun and German phrase book. "Ver is der mommenfucken quaken doktor vit der kokaine habbit?"

      • ReadFanon [any, any]
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        1 year ago

        Lmao is that the Cyberleninka logo? Who tf from Hexbear has been trawling through obscure Russian websites??

        • Tachanka [comrade/them]
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          1 year ago

          It's from somewhere? I thought someone just drew a sick ass robo lenin and submitted it as an emoji

          • ReadFanon [any, any]
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            1 year ago

            I know that no-one cares but here's a screenshot of the website where I think the image originated from:

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            Man, the fediverse chuds would eat this shit up if they stumbled across it because no doubt this is the smoking gun proving that:

            a) Hexbear is a Russian op, and

            b) Hexbear has users that are so familiar with the Russian internet that they recognise thumbnails from obscure Russian websites so it's obviously infested with Russian bots.

            (This isn't true btw. I don't speak Russian [much to my own personal disappointment] and I only use the Russian internet for piracy.)

    • Quimby [any, any]M
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      1 year ago

      I'm sitting on the toilet uncontrollably laughing out loud at this comment. I'm sure my significant other is wondering what the hell is going on.

    • 🏳️‍⚧️Edward [it/its]@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      TO: ratboy

      Sorry ratboy, I'll be a bit late to the cuddles. Swinging by Franks place, we're going to kill Freud.

      TO: Frank

      I'm swinging by in my BT-7, got my musket and school German with me.

    • monobot@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      As someone that has finished his Psychoanalysis I felt the need to correct you.

      I agree you have made nice joke with accepted stereotypes of psychoanalysis.

      But most of those people mentioning "mommy issues" also hate psychoanalysis and Freud, yeah? Ask them.

      Basically, by Freud, it does not matter. If OP is happy - go for it, of he is not then go to therapy until you are happy - which usually means to accept his own values and wishes and enjoy older big breasted women without any guilt or need to get acceptance by internet strangers.

      Sexiest things are those behind taboos. That's why I support all taboos. FFS even feet are sexy to us, look at those tribes they don't even see female brests as sexy, since it is accepted.

      Let's have as many taboos as possible!

      • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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        1 year ago

        Psychoanalysis is medical malpractice. Freud's only contribution to science was being so wrong, and causing so much harm, that better people felt a duty to prove him wrong.

  • ElGosso [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    Mommy issues is really more about being gently dommed IMO

      • WoofWoof91 [comrade/them]
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        1 year ago

        no one wants an older sub with wine aunt energy getting topped by a younger dom going goblin mode

        I-was-saying

      • ElGosso [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        I've never heard of a bratty dom before, just sounds annoying

        • Zuzak [fae/faer, she/her]
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          1 year ago

          The point of brattiness (in that context and imo) is to "misbehave" in order to provoke a response. For a bratty sub, there's a feeling of "getting what's coming to them," whereas with a bratty dom it's more about the denied gratification and the power of being getting away with stuff when they "deserve" to be punished. A bratty dom can also be a pretty natural setup to "turning the tables" in a scene, playing at exaggerated overconfidence/smugness that leads into comeuppance. Not for everyone ofc but that's the basic idea.

    • SpiderFarmer [he/him]
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      1 year ago

      True. I'm also glad I was into this before it became a whole damn internet trend. The odds were already tight a decade ago, the local cougars forming boy harems like naked mole rats.

  • AlicePraxis [any]
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    1 year ago

    that's wack, guy's an idiot. of course you can find older women attractive without it being some sort of pathology. it's not like women stop being hot after 40, anyone who thinks that is a creep

    • Frogmanfromlake [none/use name]
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      1 year ago

      A lot of dudes think any woman 30 or older is "old af" and it's almost always the type of people saying that who end up chasing women much younger than themselves.

  • ElHexo [comrade/them]
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    1 year ago

    How do you feel about calling them mommy? That seems like a simple way to find out

    Honestly I don't know how you'd even tell a 45 year old from a 55 year old and so on, since I hit 30 some time ago everyone looks either like a child / child going through puberty / mid 30s or mid 70s

  • FlakesBongler [they/them]
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    1 year ago

    I mean, I know I have mommy issues, but I also know that my sexual preferences are most likely because of all the cartoons I watched as a kid

    Silverhawks, Thundercats, X-Men, Batman...

    hyperflush

  • TheDialectic [none/use name]
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    1 year ago

    Nah, that is an age appropriate and health view of sexuality. Your associate has got Hollywood brain where you are supposed to chase women as young as you can. It is creepy, but it is socially normal right now so you can't judge people too harshly for having those kinds of ideas

    • Kuori [she/her]
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      1 year ago

      it is socially normal right now so you can't judge people too harshly for having those kinds of ideas

      of course you can, silly. i do it all the time.

  • Frogmanfromlake [none/use name]
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    1 year ago

    People will accuse you of having a fetish with any preference. Like older men/women? Parental issues/fetish. Like taller men/women? Again, parental issues/fetish. Like shorter men/women? Pedophile.

    Just ignore them and like what you like.

  • FanonFan [comrade/them, any]
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    1 year ago

    I mean maybe lol

    arguably our childhood experiences may shape the archetypes and symbols through which we subconsciously understand the world.

    But like, if that's the case, that's true for everyone to some degree, not just people whose specific tastes can be easily (and reductively) correlated with a single relationship.

    "Issues" has a negative connotation to it and I'm always critical of the idea that some innocuous thing necessarily symbolizes something worse (thus suggesting the innocuous thing itself is a problem). Unless you're experiencing problems in your life or interpersonal relationships, or causing undue harm to people around you, it doesn't really matter whether your tastes come from unconscious symbolism, evolutionary drive, or whatever mechanism. Although it can be interesting to think about.