reading all the "man vs bear" responses and discourse on hexbear has been really eye opening for me yet also very strange considering that a. I really don't seem to grasp how women feel when answering this question yet also b. keep taking the E shots and growing out my hair and I will understand one of these days
First (and only) time I dealt with that kind of behavior was when I wore a grape costume (the grapes were filled with balloons that were quite nice to grab and squeeze)- was an interesting way to find out how real the "look at what they're wearing!" excuse is. Even outside of intentionally sexual touching.
Given how many men seem to have problems with basic empathy, perhaps even that should be added the list of signs of being a transfem egg /j
Some level of awareness of that experience honestly part of the reason I was hesitant to start HRT. Ewwphoria may be okay when you feel safe and are an egg. Probably isn't nearly as nice when there's an actual threat
Happy Early May Day!
reading all the "man vs bear" responses and discourse on hexbear has been really eye opening for me yet also very strange considering that a. I really don't seem to grasp how women feel when answering this question yet also b. keep taking the E shots and growing out my hair and I will understand one of these days
Wait till you get catcalled the first time...
I was pre hrt, but the first time I went out in a skirt was the most I'd ever been "accidently" touched and groped in public
First (and only) time I dealt with that kind of behavior was when I wore a grape costume (the grapes were filled with balloons that were quite nice to grab and squeeze)- was an interesting way to find out how real the "look at what they're wearing!" excuse is. Even outside of intentionally sexual touching.
Given how many men seem to have problems with basic empathy, perhaps even that should be added the list of signs of being a transfem egg /j
Some level of awareness of that experience honestly part of the reason I was hesitant to start HRT. Ewwphoria may be okay when you feel safe and are an egg. Probably isn't nearly as nice when there's an actual threat
This will change with time and it's hands-down the worst part about transitioning.